"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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good advice anyone??

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Hey there...this is my first post, so let me introduce myself...Hi I'm kenny. That's been my nickname for years. Anyways on with my prob.

I am young, in good shape, have a sweet job, cool friends..I guess you could say I got my **** together. Except for one thing WOMEN. Sure I've landed some hotties, everyone gets lucky once and a while right?? Well thats exactly what it is, luck. Yeah I'll say it again LUCK. When a guy walks around without a clue about what it takes to attract women thats exactly what it is. It doesn't matter how good looking you may be, or how smart you are, or even how much money you have. Sure those things will definately help but only if your willing to assert yourself by being BOLD and CONFIDENT.

I used to be that guy who didn't have a clue. Over the last 5 to 6 months I have studied everything under the sun on what it takes to get the women I want. I've read it all from mystery method, to kevin bates.

I was in the game until I went exclusive with a girlfriend. Now we are broken up and I can't seem to get back in the game. Got any solid advice on how to overcome fear of approaches?? Thats my biggest obstacle, and obviously a very important one. I want to be able to approach every hottie I see and "unleash" myself upon her. Only when I try I freeze and all the stuff Iv'e learned turns to mush. Any stategies you used would be great...drop in a message and let me know.

~kenny
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stop taking the victim role and take charge.

Assume the woman you are talking to likes you.
 
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flexion_ said:
Stop taking the victim role and take charge.

Assume the woman you are talking to likes you.
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Words of wisdom.

You know why approaching 10s doesn't phase me? Not because I have laid a few of them, but because they are actually easier to approach. Think about it. Girls of high calibur rarely get approaches from men. Most men are afraid of that killer chick. The chances of her replying in a positive way is VERY high. Now, keep that in your mind at all times and approach some 10s. See for yourself.
 
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