"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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good advice anyone??

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Hey there...this is my first post, so let me introduce myself...Hi I'm kenny. That's been my nickname for years. Anyways on with my prob.

I am young, in good shape, have a sweet job, cool friends..I guess you could say I got my **** together. Except for one thing WOMEN. Sure I've landed some hotties, everyone gets lucky once and a while right?? Well thats exactly what it is, luck. Yeah I'll say it again LUCK. When a guy walks around without a clue about what it takes to attract women thats exactly what it is. It doesn't matter how good looking you may be, or how smart you are, or even how much money you have. Sure those things will definately help but only if your willing to assert yourself by being BOLD and CONFIDENT.

I used to be that guy who didn't have a clue. Over the last 5 to 6 months I have studied everything under the sun on what it takes to get the women I want. I've read it all from mystery method, to kevin bates.

I was in the game until I went exclusive with a girlfriend. Now we are broken up and I can't seem to get back in the game. Got any solid advice on how to overcome fear of approaches?? Thats my biggest obstacle, and obviously a very important one. I want to be able to approach every hottie I see and "unleash" myself upon her. Only when I try I freeze and all the stuff Iv'e learned turns to mush. Any stategies you used would be great...drop in a message and let me know.

~kenny
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Stop taking the victim role and take charge.

Assume the woman you are talking to likes you.
 

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flexion_ said:
Stop taking the victim role and take charge.

Assume the woman you are talking to likes you.
Words of wisdom.

You know why approaching 10s doesn't phase me? Not because I have laid a few of them, but because they are actually easier to approach. Think about it. Girls of high calibur rarely get approaches from men. Most men are afraid of that killer chick. The chances of her replying in a positive way is VERY high. Now, keep that in your mind at all times and approach some 10s. See for yourself.
 
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