"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gonna call her for the first time tomorrow...bullet points:

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alright so im gonna give this chick a call that I met... when I left her the other night I invited her out wednesday night for my friends and her friends to go to Dave and Busters... so tomorrow im gonna call and re-confirm the outing.... I asked her if she needed a ride and she said Yes, but then again I really don't want to pick her up so I'm hoping her friends are going to take care of her there......

here is what i have so far in the phone convo:

hey wassup this is monty...

you still down for tonite?

are your friends going too?

so you have a ride to go there right?

yea it'll be fun tonite....

well im gonna let you go now... call me up if you need a ride, if not i'll see u
there... alright... bye

Anything to add/remove? I just want to keep it short n sweet.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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That is way too much, and too insecure.

Call her and tell her you will pick her up at 8PM (or whatever), and to wear that dress you like. ;)

Then don't call her again until you are on your way.
 
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Way way too much. Sentences like that gives her the opportunity to actually think over and create doubts.

ONE LINE!
 
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yea but i kinda dont want to pick her up... isnt it weird if i just called her and be like "what time am i gonna pick you up?" i mean ive only known her for a few hours.
 
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You don't ask what time to pick her up, you TELL her what time you are picking her up. Stop acting like a little girl.

If you don't want to pick her up... don't pick her up! Why post a thread about a chick you don't want to pick up? You don't pick her up = you aren't that interested.

Stop being wishy washy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TOO MUCH THINKING, SON!

It kills.
 
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Like you said, you only met this girl for a few hours. Do you want a nervous phone convo or a date? A date right! CUT TO THE CHASE.

If you still don't know what to say, go with Iqqi's first post.
 
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Just call and confirm that your meeting at X time. Don't mention anything about the ride. Assume that she will get their with her friends. If she doesn't have a ride, let her bring it up. If thats the case, then pick her up, its not the end of the world.
 
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