"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gona start lifting!

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I decided next time i am in town i am going to buy some weights, i saw a nice set which has the longer pole and to shorter ones like dumbells aswell as 50kg of weights to fit on to them.

Has any one got any advice for any equipment thats not to expensive that i can use to help my abbs because situps suck they end up hurting my back aswell.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I just use a dumbbell held on my upper chest with my hands and do them that way. Nothing special.
 

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when doing sit up, dont keep your back straighht and stiff.

Your spine should be rolling off the ground.
 

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True, that is how i do them actually. I roll my back up and forward until my shoulder blades leave the mat, hold for a sec and then slowly unroll my back down onto the mat again. Rinse, Lather, Repeat. I up the weight after i can do 20-25 reps.
 

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Weighted crunches - put a book or weight plate on your chest and do ordinary crunches.

Remember a sixpack is made in the kitchen, not the gym.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Weighted crunches - put a book or weight plate on your chest and do ordinary crunches.

Remember a sixpack is made in the kitchen, not the gym.
what about for weighted reverse crunches?
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
what about for weighted reverse crunches?
With a twist? Honestly, when you're doing regular crunches with 50kg of weight on your stomach your abs will be fine!

Put a rucksack on your back?
 

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Your first purchase should be a Olympic weight starter kit, usually 300 pounds for $150

I'm a big fan of using a rucksack for training, I do my pullups using 80# in my well worn ALICE pack.
 

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but you cant do crunches wearing a rucksack it will get in your way i guess you could wear it on your front some how instead.
 
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