"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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gona start lifting!

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I decided next time i am in town i am going to buy some weights, i saw a nice set which has the longer pole and to shorter ones like dumbells aswell as 50kg of weights to fit on to them.

Has any one got any advice for any equipment thats not to expensive that i can use to help my abbs because situps suck they end up hurting my back aswell.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just use a dumbbell held on my upper chest with my hands and do them that way. Nothing special.
 

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when doing sit up, dont keep your back straighht and stiff.

Your spine should be rolling off the ground.
 

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True, that is how i do them actually. I roll my back up and forward until my shoulder blades leave the mat, hold for a sec and then slowly unroll my back down onto the mat again. Rinse, Lather, Repeat. I up the weight after i can do 20-25 reps.
 

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Weighted crunches - put a book or weight plate on your chest and do ordinary crunches.

Remember a sixpack is made in the kitchen, not the gym.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Weighted crunches - put a book or weight plate on your chest and do ordinary crunches.

Remember a sixpack is made in the kitchen, not the gym.
what about for weighted reverse crunches?
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
what about for weighted reverse crunches?
With a twist? Honestly, when you're doing regular crunches with 50kg of weight on your stomach your abs will be fine!

Put a rucksack on your back?
 

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Your first purchase should be a Olympic weight starter kit, usually 300 pounds for $150

I'm a big fan of using a rucksack for training, I do my pullups using 80# in my well worn ALICE pack.
 

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but you cant do crunches wearing a rucksack it will get in your way i guess you could wear it on your front some how instead.
 
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