"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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gona start lifting!

check_mate_kid_uk

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I decided next time i am in town i am going to buy some weights, i saw a nice set which has the longer pole and to shorter ones like dumbells aswell as 50kg of weights to fit on to them.

Has any one got any advice for any equipment thats not to expensive that i can use to help my abbs because situps suck they end up hurting my back aswell.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I just use a dumbbell held on my upper chest with my hands and do them that way. Nothing special.
 

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when doing sit up, dont keep your back straighht and stiff.

Your spine should be rolling off the ground.
 

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True, that is how i do them actually. I roll my back up and forward until my shoulder blades leave the mat, hold for a sec and then slowly unroll my back down onto the mat again. Rinse, Lather, Repeat. I up the weight after i can do 20-25 reps.
 

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Weighted crunches - put a book or weight plate on your chest and do ordinary crunches.

Remember a sixpack is made in the kitchen, not the gym.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Weighted crunches - put a book or weight plate on your chest and do ordinary crunches.

Remember a sixpack is made in the kitchen, not the gym.
what about for weighted reverse crunches?
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
what about for weighted reverse crunches?
With a twist? Honestly, when you're doing regular crunches with 50kg of weight on your stomach your abs will be fine!

Put a rucksack on your back?
 

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Your first purchase should be a Olympic weight starter kit, usually 300 pounds for $150

I'm a big fan of using a rucksack for training, I do my pullups using 80# in my well worn ALICE pack.
 

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but you cant do crunches wearing a rucksack it will get in your way i guess you could wear it on your front some how instead.
 
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