“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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gold mine.

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earlier this year, at a club me and a mate approaches these 2 girls who were looking at us, they invited us to continue the night with them at another club, they were on a bus trip around the city.

we went on the bus trip, went back to there place. the bus was a gold mine, about 5 guys on it and 15 girls.

i made good friends with 2 girls on the bus. HBawesome and HBcuddly.

we hung out a few times, clubs/parties, always drinking. HBawesome just had her birthday and we went on another bus trip around the city. HBcuddly said "would you like to have regular casual sex with me?" i sorta played it off, but left it open.

most of these chicks are pretty good, say an 8 outa 10 average. but hb cuddly is probably a 7.

i previously hooked up with a HB8 friend of hers at a party, and on the most recent encounter was laying very heavey kino on a new HB8 and she really enjoyed it, however, i was too drunk to act on that -hard to imagine.

question is, should i take HBcuddly up on the casual sex? or should i stick it out, and try for the hotter ones in the group? where i have a tonne of social proof, they all like me, and know me as a fun guy.

and HBawesome really likes me, just as a friend, but she sorta leads the group, and is probably the closest thing to a 10 that i know.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well, if HBawesome likes you as a friend, then thats unlikely to change, even less so if you take up her friend on casual sex (unless of course HBawesome is unaware and remains being unaware of the arrangement). Hey, if it was me, i'd take the sex. But maybe you have higher standards than I do. I would still do a 7. It would depend though.
 

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never heard a woman say this

HBcuddly said "would you like to have regular casual sex with me?"
Even if she was drunk, what woman in her right mind would say this?
 

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Re: never heard a woman say this

Originally posted by Ol'BlueEyes
Even if she was drunk, what woman in her right mind would say this?
she wasn't overly drunk. it was early in the night.
but i guess she said it because she feels comfortable with me, and wasn't scared of rejection.
she knows that i'm a fun and sexual guy. not overly choosey in women.
i don't see her as slutty because of it.
i see her enlightened.
 

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well if you keep it on the down low, you might still be able to get with some of the other chicks

anyway the seven likes you. You are waiting to get with an eight or nine who MAY like you, but clearly the 7 likes you and will screw you, so why not take it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by isotope
well if you keep it on the down low, you might still be able to get with some of the other chicks

anyway the seven likes you. You are waiting to get with an eight or nine who MAY like you, but clearly the 7 likes you and will screw you, so why not take it
yeah.. i think i'll have to just f*ck her..

the way i see it, i can meet a new HB8 or even HB9 anytime i want...

i just lose the social proof i have.
 
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