"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gold mine.

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earlier this year, at a club me and a mate approaches these 2 girls who were looking at us, they invited us to continue the night with them at another club, they were on a bus trip around the city.

we went on the bus trip, went back to there place. the bus was a gold mine, about 5 guys on it and 15 girls.

i made good friends with 2 girls on the bus. HBawesome and HBcuddly.

we hung out a few times, clubs/parties, always drinking. HBawesome just had her birthday and we went on another bus trip around the city. HBcuddly said "would you like to have regular casual sex with me?" i sorta played it off, but left it open.

most of these chicks are pretty good, say an 8 outa 10 average. but hb cuddly is probably a 7.

i previously hooked up with a HB8 friend of hers at a party, and on the most recent encounter was laying very heavey kino on a new HB8 and she really enjoyed it, however, i was too drunk to act on that -hard to imagine.

question is, should i take HBcuddly up on the casual sex? or should i stick it out, and try for the hotter ones in the group? where i have a tonne of social proof, they all like me, and know me as a fun guy.

and HBawesome really likes me, just as a friend, but she sorta leads the group, and is probably the closest thing to a 10 that i know.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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well, if HBawesome likes you as a friend, then thats unlikely to change, even less so if you take up her friend on casual sex (unless of course HBawesome is unaware and remains being unaware of the arrangement). Hey, if it was me, i'd take the sex. But maybe you have higher standards than I do. I would still do a 7. It would depend though.
 

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never heard a woman say this

HBcuddly said "would you like to have regular casual sex with me?"
Even if she was drunk, what woman in her right mind would say this?
 

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Re: never heard a woman say this

Originally posted by Ol'BlueEyes
Even if she was drunk, what woman in her right mind would say this?
she wasn't overly drunk. it was early in the night.
but i guess she said it because she feels comfortable with me, and wasn't scared of rejection.
she knows that i'm a fun and sexual guy. not overly choosey in women.
i don't see her as slutty because of it.
i see her enlightened.
 

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well if you keep it on the down low, you might still be able to get with some of the other chicks

anyway the seven likes you. You are waiting to get with an eight or nine who MAY like you, but clearly the 7 likes you and will screw you, so why not take it
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by isotope
well if you keep it on the down low, you might still be able to get with some of the other chicks

anyway the seven likes you. You are waiting to get with an eight or nine who MAY like you, but clearly the 7 likes you and will screw you, so why not take it
yeah.. i think i'll have to just f*ck her..

the way i see it, i can meet a new HB8 or even HB9 anytime i want...

i just lose the social proof i have.
 
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