"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Going to Spain

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In a couple of days, I will be going to Spain. I was there one year ago (with my parents and aunt and uncle), and the tropical heat really blew my testosterone levels sky high. Now, that's just great, but not when you're with family members. However, I got some privacy and I managed to confine my testosterone to some extent.
But now, I'll be there with even more family members, and consequently get even less privacy. So, basically, there will be no privacy at all.
I'm just concerned about my testosterone, which I think will run over during my time there.

Any comments?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What on Earth are you talking about? The tropical heat makes you horny? Oh jeez. This is one I have never heard.
 
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Spain is a gorgeous country, man. Why confine yourself?

You're a new setting with new people and you have nothing to lose! Go crazy and leave no regrets.
 
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Skilla_Staz said:
What on Earth are you talking about? The tropical heat makes you horny? Oh jeez. This is one I have never heard.
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Haha, I'm from the cold north, you know.
 
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Haha, I'm from the cold north, you know.
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Hey I know where you're coming from man, I live in jersey and I'm in VA for a few weeks and although its not as hot as spain I've vowed not to masturbate and only get with girls. So my testosterone is going to be raging in a few days (so far its only been about 4 or 5 and I'm already feeling more bold, dunno if its a placebo effect or not), so use that to your advantage. Nature put it there for a reason :).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A friend of mine met and partied with Tara Reid in Spain. Now they're mates (he has no balls).

Good luck.
 
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Tara Reid gained a gut, or so she had one last i checked.
but i would probably still bang her out, just to say I did.
 
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WesCottII said:
A friend of mine met and partied with Tara Reid in Spain. Now they're mates (he has no balls).

Good luck.
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Are you serious? I'd like to meet her, too!

 
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Yeah. They talk on the phone a fair bit. Apparently she looks a whole lot older in real life - that said, I'd still do her.
 
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if you get really horny go to the bathroom and do your business.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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if you get really horny go to the bathroom and do your business.
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Yep. I know. In case of emergency, there will be a way out.

Well, this is my last visit here before I leave, so good bye to everyone, and have a great summer (for those of you who live above equator).
 
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