Good god, it just hit me, I am screwed. This girl is easily a high 9/10 and I am going to prom with her. It's in 1 week, saturday apr 16th. We're both seniors...anyone have any tips for me to help me survive the night? (and the week leading up to the prom)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
going to prom with a girl way out of my league.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
eggnawgkid
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I don't see how you're screwed. You can't be too out of her league if she likes you enough to go with you. But one tip would be not to treat her like she is out of your league or you will convince her that she is and it can only go downhill once she believes that.
Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
If she starts dancing with other guys, then go dance with other girls.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
i can't believe you really think your screwed
dude, she agreed to go with you. meaning she likes you. meaning that you should be looking forward to this as potentially the best night of your life. but don't worry about trying to make it this way. just HAVE FUN!
if things go well, let her touch your penis
dude, she agreed to go with you. meaning she likes you. meaning that you should be looking forward to this as potentially the best night of your life. but don't worry about trying to make it this way. just HAVE FUN!
if things go well, let her touch your penis
thanks mr. i'll just keep in mind "have a good time" and hopefully it will take care of the rest. Anyways, I'm going with a friend who is one of the funniest people I've ever met so hopefully he will help lighten the mood and help me break the ice.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
excellent
have fun with your friend, but don't forget your date
have fun with your friend, but don't forget your date
Keasbey Nights
Don Juan
Maybe instead of convinving yourself thats she ugly you can get in your head that you can roll with the pretty ones?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Read the title of your post again. Sounds like someone needs to fukken grow a pair.
She's going with you and she is the luckiest girl at the school because of this, never forget that. You wont dance with other girls as a result of her dancing with guys, it's easy to see whats happening there. Instead, you will take the power and dance with other girls first. If she does dance with other guys, you wont care, you not ****en tied together by the leg.
Most importantly, have a good fukken time and dont spend your whole night analysing ****.
She's going with you and she is the luckiest girl at the school because of this, never forget that. You wont dance with other girls as a result of her dancing with guys, it's easy to see whats happening there. Instead, you will take the power and dance with other girls first. If she does dance with other guys, you wont care, you not ****en tied together by the leg.
Most importantly, have a good fukken time and dont spend your whole night analysing ****.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
Hmm. From the looks of it you seem to feel as if this girl is TO GOOD for you. If you go in with THAT mindset, you have already lost.....BIGTIME.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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She's not out of your league. Don't ever think a girl is out of your league.
Just go into the dance looking to have a great time.
Just go into the dance looking to have a great time.
Michael Chief
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just calm the fvck down.
Be cool.
there is no problem. there are no worries.
if anything comes up, u can handle it then and you dont have to worry about it now.
Be cool.
there is no problem. there are no worries.
if anything comes up, u can handle it then and you dont have to worry about it now.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.