Good god, it just hit me, I am screwed. This girl is easily a high 9/10 and I am going to prom with her. It's in 1 week, saturday apr 16th. We're both seniors...anyone have any tips for me to help me survive the night? (and the week leading up to the prom)
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
going to prom with a girl way out of my league.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
eggnawgkid
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I don't see how you're screwed. You can't be too out of her league if she likes you enough to go with you. But one tip would be not to treat her like she is out of your league or you will convince her that she is and it can only go downhill once she believes that.
Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
If she starts dancing with other guys, then go dance with other girls.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
i can't believe you really think your screwed
dude, she agreed to go with you. meaning she likes you. meaning that you should be looking forward to this as potentially the best night of your life. but don't worry about trying to make it this way. just HAVE FUN!
if things go well, let her touch your penis
dude, she agreed to go with you. meaning she likes you. meaning that you should be looking forward to this as potentially the best night of your life. but don't worry about trying to make it this way. just HAVE FUN!
if things go well, let her touch your penis
thanks mr. i'll just keep in mind "have a good time" and hopefully it will take care of the rest. Anyways, I'm going with a friend who is one of the funniest people I've ever met so hopefully he will help lighten the mood and help me break the ice.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
excellent
have fun with your friend, but don't forget your date
have fun with your friend, but don't forget your date
Keasbey Nights
Don Juan
Maybe instead of convinving yourself thats she ugly you can get in your head that you can roll with the pretty ones?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Read the title of your post again. Sounds like someone needs to fukken grow a pair.
She's going with you and she is the luckiest girl at the school because of this, never forget that. You wont dance with other girls as a result of her dancing with guys, it's easy to see whats happening there. Instead, you will take the power and dance with other girls first. If she does dance with other guys, you wont care, you not ****en tied together by the leg.
Most importantly, have a good fukken time and dont spend your whole night analysing ****.
She's going with you and she is the luckiest girl at the school because of this, never forget that. You wont dance with other girls as a result of her dancing with guys, it's easy to see whats happening there. Instead, you will take the power and dance with other girls first. If she does dance with other guys, you wont care, you not ****en tied together by the leg.
Most importantly, have a good fukken time and dont spend your whole night analysing ****.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
Hmm. From the looks of it you seem to feel as if this girl is TO GOOD for you. If you go in with THAT mindset, you have already lost.....BIGTIME.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Sir Lancelot
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She's not out of your league. Don't ever think a girl is out of your league.
Just go into the dance looking to have a great time.
Just go into the dance looking to have a great time.
Michael Chief
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just calm the fvck down.
Be cool.
there is no problem. there are no worries.
if anything comes up, u can handle it then and you dont have to worry about it now.
Be cool.
there is no problem. there are no worries.
if anything comes up, u can handle it then and you dont have to worry about it now.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.