She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yep it was fun that night...Park is usually hit or miss...guywhoneedshelp said:Another member of this site brought me to a place on 10th avenue and 17th street called "THE PARK"
Check out www.theparknyc.com
It was a great place, I had a lot of fun, and met a lot of real women. A lot of asians though, which are not my type. But a great place where a lot of nice people get together and socialize. Show up before 9PM, and on Friday and Saturday the upstairs opens at 12AM and it's crazy up there. See the penthouse on the website.
I agree they are like that, but if you can't beat 'em you might as well join 'em. They are getting nailed by somebody, it could be you. After dealing with their b!tchiness you'll find ways to get them smiling.Overcomer9 said:didnt really like new york when i was there. you guy game women there? i found the women to be really cold and standoffish...they didn't even make eye contact most of the time. truth be told, most people didn't..maybe it's just a regional thing?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.