"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Going to new york

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Where is the best places to pick up woman in new york?

What is the best clubs for pick ups?

Thanks :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Another member of this site brought me to a place on 10th avenue and 17th street called "THE PARK"

Check out www.theparknyc.com

It was a great place, I had a lot of fun, and met a lot of real women. A lot of asians though, which are not my type. But a great place where a lot of nice people get together and socialize. Show up before 9PM, and on Friday and Saturday the upstairs opens at 12AM and it's crazy up there. See the penthouse on the website.
 

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If you go to Park make sure you have girls with you. It gets packed on Friday and Saturday nights and the drinks are expensive.
If you go down to the Village there are a lot of bars in that area too.
 

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Another great place that a girl showed me was Fat Cat Billiard.

Check out http://www.fatcatmusic.org/

$3 to get in. Lots of young college students in the area who are there just to hang out, sit on couches, listen to jazz music, play pool, scrabble, chess, ping pong, shuffleboard, and drink. I've had fun playing pool with people I met there but found most of the women to be b!tchy, well that's New York for ya.
 

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Pacha is the best place for quick make outs and ons. Soho and the west village are the place to be for bar hopping. No places in particular are bad to pick up women in NYC, if you have a tight game you can consistently pull girls as long as the venue is target rich.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Snow Plowman

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guywhoneedshelp said:
Another member of this site brought me to a place on 10th avenue and 17th street called "THE PARK"

Check out www.theparknyc.com

It was a great place, I had a lot of fun, and met a lot of real women. A lot of asians though, which are not my type. But a great place where a lot of nice people get together and socialize. Show up before 9PM, and on Friday and Saturday the upstairs opens at 12AM and it's crazy up there. See the penthouse on the website.
Yep it was fun that night...Park is usually hit or miss...

The best places I've found...
Soho Shopping Area - You will spot MANY models and HOTTIES...be prepared to go store hopping and walking in all girl stores to get the best of of this experience. My favorite store is Sephora, it is HUGE and always has hotties

Union Square - Community daytime central...I've met many instructors here, this place is always packed no matter what time it is in the night great stores nearby

Washington Square Park - NYU is in session if you want those college chicks that's the spot...

Grand Central & Penn Station - These two train stations are very underrated...hotties all over passing through, it's wonderful. At night you will see the party chicks waiting to get home, I've seen some of the hottest chicks in these parts

Time Square - TOURISTS TOURISTS TOURISTS...JUST PULL...some are leaving the next day and stuff so it's all about getting same day lays. It's real fun doing this

Meat Packing District - Great place to be at...lots of Community guys though, so it turns into the playoffs...
 

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didnt really like new york when i was there. you guy game women there? i found the women to be really cold and standoffish...they didn't even make eye contact most of the time. truth be told, most people didn't..maybe it's just a regional thing?
 

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That's why I love NYC...I don't find NYC hard at all, but I'm starting to think it's a subjective thing because some say other places are harder. From what I seen your right at first glance most chicks don't give EC...they usually have a real bitvhy look that I love by the way...haha...

I draw state from within and live in my own reality so I honestly have no problems chatting up these chicks, no matter how bitvhy they look. I haven't got blown out in a VERY long time and I'm always the one to jump into the hardest sets.

Also eye contact isn't necessary to approach
 

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Overcomer9 said:
didnt really like new york when i was there. you guy game women there? i found the women to be really cold and standoffish...they didn't even make eye contact most of the time. truth be told, most people didn't..maybe it's just a regional thing?
I agree they are like that, but if you can't beat 'em you might as well join 'em. They are getting nailed by somebody, it could be you. After dealing with their b!tchiness you'll find ways to get them smiling.

Also Penn Station is a good spot. I #closed this 21 year old blond recently who was waiting for her train. I called her like a week later, left a message, she never called back. Whatever. But yea I totally forgot that is a decent spot, I find girls sitting on the floor and just sit next to them as they wait for their train.

My friend Anthony wants to the City with me on Saturday, so we'll probably go check out some of these places. We may just end up back at Park again, that place rocked

BTW - That b!tchy look is a damn turn on for me too unfortunately. And if I learned one thing from you that day, it's the benefit of actually being in your own little world where you just don't give a fvck. Call it surreal or whatever, it works. I just do whatever the hell I want and I gain more attention that way.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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