LOL. Well, when I'm out and about in public I don't see very many young decent women around here. I mean under 35 and if so they're married. Even when dinning out locally I do not see many. There are no night clubs around here or anything like that. Everything shuts down literally at 9pm.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Going to meet that cute 49 yr old teacher tonight. How to keep frame?
- Thread starter biggoal
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I respect this BG. You're actually learning... you're definitely not big Dave lol
You do not see nor are being seen because of the aura you generate.
An aura in simpler terms can be considered as a reflection of ur life force/substance/frame.
Hence the necessity of creating a strong frame, it is power.
This power within you can greatly impact ur prowess to surpass many obstacles in life.
I hv already guided you on the mechanisms of frame in 1 of ur threads, if u r wise, you will dwell upon it, understand its meaning and take advantage of it.
So I texted her today to see how her week went and what she was up to. She was at a park taking a bike ride and she sent me a cute selfie from the park and asked how I was doing.
So she's still into the selfie. I guess she didn't get more dates from that other guy if she's sending selfies again?
So should I start talking to her more? I went 7 days without speaking to her.
She passes the boner test.
So she's still into the selfie. I guess she didn't get more dates from that other guy if she's sending selfies again?
So should I start talking to her more? I went 7 days without speaking to her.
She passes the boner test.
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Invite her over to your place and you'll have your answer. Stop playing tiddlywinks with these hos
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
and she went 7 days not thinking about you
its nice to have platonic friends, even if they dont care about you
you are such a good friend, awww
Why did she send another selfie?
MrWood
Master Don Juan
50yo women will take any attention they can get.
You are giving it free.
you: How have you been!
her: great! <selfie>
you: you look great!
her: thank you!
you: you are welcome
<<crickets>>
She needs a younger guy but prefers min her age or older. An younger guy has more to offer in a relationship such as more energy, more testosterone and overall just younger and more stamina and more fun to be around.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
fact check time:
if she "needs a younger guy", you arent him
she does not initiate
she is dating an older guy (and actually fvcking a younger MAN for fun)
your reasoning is:
m(age) < 50 = more testosterone and stamina
therefore f(age) > 40 = women want lower age men
facts:
you might be 36, however you are anything but masculine @ 125lb and over 5'8
you are a "cute boy", not a "sexy man"
a woman over 40 might want a younger guy, FOR A FLING
a masculine guy... a guy they know will pound them through the mattress
(you weigh less than most american women, this does not equal "pounding me silly")
women typically want and desire OLDER men
You only hear of older women with younger guys... in fantasy stories and Harlequin romance novels (and celebs).
on average a woman:
18-26 wants to date a guy 28-35
27-36 wants to marry a guy 30-45
36-45 wants to date/marry a guy 40-55
46-+ wants to date a guy 45-60
a note:
a woman past her child bearing years wonders one thing about a guy who chases older women...
younger girls must not want his seed and do not find him suitable nor desirable.
If we go by natural selection and breeding desirability, you are not a females first choice. And thats OK
If I could make babies (vasectomy) I could have my pick of childless HB8+ 30yo's at my age and suave.
So, is it only age? NO.
if she "needs a younger guy", you arent him
she does not initiate
she is dating an older guy (and actually fvcking a younger MAN for fun)
your reasoning is:
m(age) < 50 = more testosterone and stamina
therefore f(age) > 40 = women want lower age men
facts:
you might be 36, however you are anything but masculine @ 125lb and over 5'8
you are a "cute boy", not a "sexy man"
a woman over 40 might want a younger guy, FOR A FLING
a masculine guy... a guy they know will pound them through the mattress
(you weigh less than most american women, this does not equal "pounding me silly")
women typically want and desire OLDER men
You only hear of older women with younger guys... in fantasy stories and Harlequin romance novels (and celebs).
on average a woman:
18-26 wants to date a guy 28-35
27-36 wants to marry a guy 30-45
36-45 wants to date/marry a guy 40-55
46-+ wants to date a guy 45-60
a note:
a woman past her child bearing years wonders one thing about a guy who chases older women...
younger girls must not want his seed and do not find him suitable nor desirable.
If we go by natural selection and breeding desirability, you are not a females first choice. And thats OK
If I could make babies (vasectomy) I could have my pick of childless HB8+ 30yo's at my age and suave.
So, is it only age? NO.
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Then why most of my dates are women over 37 and usually at min HB 7.5?
On OLD in my region it's mostly post wall women. Only a very few under 35 and they go for super chads or rich older guys. Most of the pre wall women on the OLD apps are land whales.
A hot 40 year old is better than a 28 year old land whale.
This 50 year old teacher is not a big girl. She's very petite and only about 5-1 and is in very good physical shape. It's odd though when she hugged and snuggled up against me the top of her head just barely reaches my chin. I mean I could really pound her thru the mattress as you put it.
I only have OLD to use to meet women. So mostly post wall so post wall it is for me.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
you are not desirable as a DNA donor for prime mating in females, who are 13-36
If I was a HB7+ female, and wanted a DNA donor to create beautiful strong children,
based on your avatar (boyish) and description (a thin beanpole), you are not my first pick... sorry.
I cant disagree
in your mind, not hers
A LOT of forum users on here have stated they'd take an overweight woman in her 20s over a hot woman in their 40s, mainly because they're tighter! I'm not kidding!
But a few years ago Hollywood was pimping that younger Justin Bieber look on women. You know when he was even more skinny and had the kid face and didn't look like a man, but younger than he should for his age. Young 19 year olds were eating that sh** up. Justin at 19, looks more like 15 and girly lips.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
JB appeal = desireability
the more younger women want a male, the more desirable to bag as an older woman because it validates her desireability (as a woman reaching toward the inability to bear children)
if N x f(youth.age) / 1 x m(desireability) > HBx then (desireability) increases for N x f(all.age)
you dont understand primal directives and the dichotemy of men/women much, do you?
the more younger women want a male, the more desirable to bag as an older woman because it validates her desireability (as a woman reaching toward the inability to bear children)
if N x f(youth.age) / 1 x m(desireability) > HBx then (desireability) increases for N x f(all.age)
you dont understand primal directives and the dichotemy of men/women much, do you?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So as you know I still keep in touch from time to time. As I posted she goes on dates with older guys but keeps saying she can't find the right one. We still stay in touch though, granted not often now since it seems on her end she only wants to stay distance friends.
Anyway I did text her like 8 days ago seeing how her long weekend went since she went to Tallahassee since she had 4 days off due to President's Day being she's a teacher. I asked how that went and all. Anyway nothing for 8 days and since her reply rates time spaces were gradually getting longer I figured she just did a soft ghost on me.
So today I got a reply from her. Saying she had a good weekend visiting her family. She said she has been seeing a guy for a couple dates now and crosses her fingers hoping it goes well and asked what I was up to.
So why after 8 days did she decide to even reply? It must have been in the back of her mind or she was thinking about me. That's a long time to just go back and randomly message a dude back.
What would you say about this? She also knows the door is open at any time as long as I'm single.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
to clear that notification dot on her phone
It's time you stop ALL interactions with this fella until he has assembled his gym equipment.
He needs to build his foundations as a man.
Let's start with the simplest, that is building up his body.
Then we can slowly guide him with how to deal with women.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
this might help
I would then counter that if she wants to know then I can meetup and give her hands on tutoring.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.