MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
Everytime I read "Cute" 49 year old and I see this massive troll thread go on I CRINGE.
HOW IS THIS THREAD A THING?!
HOW IS THIS THREAD A THING?!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Going to meet that cute 49 yr old teacher tonight. How to keep frame?
- Thread starter biggoal
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It's fine if you rate her as such. That's ur personal rating.
Hush now. Let's not jump the gun.
Wait for @xplt to reply with his findings and then we can make a proper profile of you.
From there we can then see what's needed OK.
You dont think a 49 year old can be cute?
guru1000
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Went to Miami twice last month. Loaded up OLD, four models, two nights. Hotter than most NYC top tier chicks.
Now if I can do that from NY—a 3 hour flight to Miami (although a business trip)—you have no excuse living anywhere in FL.
Search in Miami. Step up. leave the 50 yos for the 70+ men. Don’t dirty their pool.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That's not fair! Why do you have to drive 150 miles to Miami for that? I'm stuck in the oldest area of the state and the hot chicks are 150 miles away. Why does it have to be so hard and long of a drive?
guru1000
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Set up a business in Miami or get a weekend condo there. Real estate is booming if you can afford to buy something.
Have a reason to go.
Load up your OLD right now with Miami and take a test run. Might motivate you to get off your azz and do something financially productive there.
No woman wants a relationship if the guy lives 150 miles away.
guru1000
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How about 1000 miles away? Sure they do.
Your struggles are a call to change. You’re a business man, correct? Time to expand your business horizons.
Top women ==> Top or Upcoming economy
think Bigger.
Someone from there told me those markets in Southeast FL are much busier and run out of stock fast if you don't keep up. Over here it's mostly old people 70 and above shopping at my market.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She's cute and fun size though. Petite like 5-2 but in really good shape and perfect smile and face.
GrowingPains
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Someone told Elon Musk Tesla would never be a real company. What if Elon listened?
Also, I think your ability to rate women is muddied by the fact that you're having a dry spell. After you have sex the 8's of today will become the 6's of tomorrow. I went through this too. Now I can clearly identify a woman as cute, attractive, or hot. But before they were all hot.
I'd like to know what your options are to support us helping you: It sounds like you don't want to move because of the high cost of living you might incur. That's based on your comment about Miami being expensive. What if you move somewhere less expensive. Like North Carolina? I can. Attest that there are hot girls everywhere in NC. Even in buttfvck nowhere. Is that an option for you? To relocate somewhere like NC?
Re: your 49 yo sugar momma. Bang the b!tch. I am rooting for you on this one. You need this win. So she's sending you pics... Great, she is either teasing you or she is interested and is trying to play the 'Im too old for you you need xyz' card because she wants to seem 'mature' and 'thoughtful'. If this is the case, I'd say it's similar to a woman saying 'we're not having sex tonight' snd then doing just the opposite. So there's only one way to find out. Invite her out for drinks. One drink. Just you and her. Call her up and say you're going to this bar at this time this weekend. She will say she is busy or that's cool. If she says that's cool or some variant, say 'I want you to join me'. The point is to tell her you want her to come. With authority. Because you want your intent to be clear. If she agrees or asks for details, make it clear that it's just you and her this time.
If she says anything else besides complying with you telling her to come with (asking for details, giggling, counter offer) you tell her that you hope she has a good rest of the evening and that you've got to go. And you forget about her. On to the next one.
Are you game?
Really?!
I wasn't very serious about this... There were enough ladies under 40 and even 30. I think he should just work on his profile and perhaps reset his profile once.Then based ur findings, let's profile BG. He doesn't seem to want young women since there's plenty.Really?!
He also likes women around the ages of 45-49 and thinks they're kinda cute - safe to say that BG is targeting women within that age group.
Those of you who have participated in his threads could help out filling the blanks below:
1. His strengths = persistence, any others?
2. Weaknesses = too persistent, any others?
3. Opportunities = pool of young women is available @his location, any others ?
4. Threats = Established men who's older, any others ?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
So I deleted Tinder and made a new one. So far the profile is half arse because I'm not even done making it yet and only uploaded 3 pics and within 5 minutes have 3 people liking me and I haven't even swiped anyone yet. And of course you have to pay for Tinder Gold if you want to see them unless you keep swiping and happen to swipe on them, so yes the whole ELO thing is true for new users which is BS because it shows new users at the top.
They need to change the system of Tinder and Bumble.
They need to change the system of Tinder and Bumble.
I texted with her a tad today. Just to see what's going on. She was going for a bike ride after school and just got home and was eating dinner but feels like she's coming down with a cold so I didn't want to text too much but still seems talkative towards me like before. I'll text her tomorrow at school to see how she's feeling. Maybe she'll send a cute selfie from class again.
So is there a strategy here to use? I mean I want to bang this chick or else I wouldn't be keeping in contact with her. I mean, it's obvious she isn't repulsed by me and such since she talked to be for over a month and a half almost daily but more like friend zoned me. Since she isn't repulsed be me obviously there has to be some way just to get over the finish line with her. I just need to get past that hurdle.
I really think it's her best friend (fellow teacher) I met that night with her that's filling her head with stuff.
So is there a strategy here to use? I mean I want to bang this chick or else I wouldn't be keeping in contact with her. I mean, it's obvious she isn't repulsed by me and such since she talked to be for over a month and a half almost daily but more like friend zoned me. Since she isn't repulsed be me obviously there has to be some way just to get over the finish line with her. I just need to get past that hurdle.
I really think it's her best friend (fellow teacher) I met that night with her that's filling her head with stuff.
MrWood
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next time she sends a selfie, respond with:
"cute smile/outfit, you look delicious"
this conveys that you don't see her as a friend only and is not a needy or pedestal position.
her response will likely be a simple "thank you" and then she goes silent. Do not respond to this.
Do not respond to this.
Do not respond to this.
Do not respond to this.
If she does not follow up.. Do not respond.
If she does follow up...
respond by asking her out for a drink/coffee on Friday night 6pm (do not offer a movie or dinner)
"cute smile/outfit, you look delicious"
this conveys that you don't see her as a friend only and is not a needy or pedestal position.
her response will likely be a simple "thank you" and then she goes silent. Do not respond to this.
Do not respond to this.
Do not respond to this.
Do not respond to this.
If she does not follow up.. Do not respond.
If she does follow up...
respond by asking her out for a drink/coffee on Friday night 6pm (do not offer a movie or dinner)
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.