"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Going to ignore women for a minute

Chromeo

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Im gonna try ignoring women for a few months... well at least a few weeks.

This means no initiating contact. Basically speak when spoken too, and do not do anything for the sake of hanging out with a girl. I will only respond to invites to hang out. If I am already doing something I may allow her to tag along.

Ive been doing a little bit of this already for about two weeks with girls ive just met and already starting to see them come to me. Lets see what happens.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Let us know how it goes.
 

DJ Miquelo

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might work quite well!

i say that as i did the same thing sort of accidently for a couple of months just there cos i wanted to work on myself and such plus i had alot going on...

and it worked pretty nicely for me i gotta say.

anyway, keep us updated
 

Chromeo

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Im seeing the benefits already.

one girl texting me right now if I need assistance spinning records tonight. (told her I was gonna stay in and spin as im djing a party tomorrow). problem is im not really interested.

another girl last night was angry I wouldnt talk to her because I was catching up on entourage (left facebook on in the background)

her: Chromeoooo
me: what?
her: what are you up too!?
her: dont ignore me!
me: im watching entourage
her: well you shouldnt be on facebook and watching tv at the same time stupid
me: ill do whatever the sh!t I want
her: haha ok tough guy

gonna keep this going. my one buddy who is actually kind of a man ***** told me he thinks girls are annoying. I mean he plays hockey so hes in pretty good shape but I think his attitude plays a big part.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SandHawk

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I went on a break 2 weeks ago and decided to just leave girls alone. And lo and behold, I was clubbing last weekend: I got approached 3 times, and all three girls were pretty hot. Shot em all down as I am putting women on hold and stick to my word, but damn.
 

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Ya know I thought about that also. i lft girls alone, but I didn't get the same thing happen to me. Girls just left me alone. It might be because, I really wanted to get good with girls, and still I put them on a pedestal, so my vibe went out. All I thought about was how I looked in a girls eyes. I think if your going to do this. Your mind, must be fully unwanted to initiate with girls, and so your body and attitude will portray this. Just do your own thing!


Keep posting updates bro!
 
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