"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Going to ignore women for a minute

Chromeo

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Im gonna try ignoring women for a few months... well at least a few weeks.

This means no initiating contact. Basically speak when spoken too, and do not do anything for the sake of hanging out with a girl. I will only respond to invites to hang out. If I am already doing something I may allow her to tag along.

Ive been doing a little bit of this already for about two weeks with girls ive just met and already starting to see them come to me. Lets see what happens.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SeymourCake

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Let us know how it goes.
 

DJ Miquelo

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might work quite well!

i say that as i did the same thing sort of accidently for a couple of months just there cos i wanted to work on myself and such plus i had alot going on...

and it worked pretty nicely for me i gotta say.

anyway, keep us updated
 

Chromeo

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Im seeing the benefits already.

one girl texting me right now if I need assistance spinning records tonight. (told her I was gonna stay in and spin as im djing a party tomorrow). problem is im not really interested.

another girl last night was angry I wouldnt talk to her because I was catching up on entourage (left facebook on in the background)

her: Chromeoooo
me: what?
her: what are you up too!?
her: dont ignore me!
me: im watching entourage
her: well you shouldnt be on facebook and watching tv at the same time stupid
me: ill do whatever the sh!t I want
her: haha ok tough guy

gonna keep this going. my one buddy who is actually kind of a man ***** told me he thinks girls are annoying. I mean he plays hockey so hes in pretty good shape but I think his attitude plays a big part.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SandHawk

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I went on a break 2 weeks ago and decided to just leave girls alone. And lo and behold, I was clubbing last weekend: I got approached 3 times, and all three girls were pretty hot. Shot em all down as I am putting women on hold and stick to my word, but damn.
 

cool dude

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Ya know I thought about that also. i lft girls alone, but I didn't get the same thing happen to me. Girls just left me alone. It might be because, I really wanted to get good with girls, and still I put them on a pedestal, so my vibe went out. All I thought about was how I looked in a girls eyes. I think if your going to do this. Your mind, must be fully unwanted to initiate with girls, and so your body and attitude will portray this. Just do your own thing!


Keep posting updates bro!
 
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