"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Going to ignore women for a minute

Chromeo

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Im gonna try ignoring women for a few months... well at least a few weeks.

This means no initiating contact. Basically speak when spoken too, and do not do anything for the sake of hanging out with a girl. I will only respond to invites to hang out. If I am already doing something I may allow her to tag along.

Ive been doing a little bit of this already for about two weeks with girls ive just met and already starting to see them come to me. Lets see what happens.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SeymourCake

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Let us know how it goes.
 

DJ Miquelo

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might work quite well!

i say that as i did the same thing sort of accidently for a couple of months just there cos i wanted to work on myself and such plus i had alot going on...

and it worked pretty nicely for me i gotta say.

anyway, keep us updated
 

Chromeo

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Im seeing the benefits already.

one girl texting me right now if I need assistance spinning records tonight. (told her I was gonna stay in and spin as im djing a party tomorrow). problem is im not really interested.

another girl last night was angry I wouldnt talk to her because I was catching up on entourage (left facebook on in the background)

her: Chromeoooo
me: what?
her: what are you up too!?
her: dont ignore me!
me: im watching entourage
her: well you shouldnt be on facebook and watching tv at the same time stupid
me: ill do whatever the sh!t I want
her: haha ok tough guy

gonna keep this going. my one buddy who is actually kind of a man ***** told me he thinks girls are annoying. I mean he plays hockey so hes in pretty good shape but I think his attitude plays a big part.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SandHawk

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I went on a break 2 weeks ago and decided to just leave girls alone. And lo and behold, I was clubbing last weekend: I got approached 3 times, and all three girls were pretty hot. Shot em all down as I am putting women on hold and stick to my word, but damn.
 

cool dude

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Ya know I thought about that also. i lft girls alone, but I didn't get the same thing happen to me. Girls just left me alone. It might be because, I really wanted to get good with girls, and still I put them on a pedestal, so my vibe went out. All I thought about was how I looked in a girls eyes. I think if your going to do this. Your mind, must be fully unwanted to initiate with girls, and so your body and attitude will portray this. Just do your own thing!


Keep posting updates bro!
 
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