“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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:up: Going To This Girls Job Who I Never Met Before, Although I Add I Have Been Speaking To Her For A Month On Aim, Now She Works At A Womens Clothing Store, And She Is A Manager.. Tommorow Night Nobody Will Be In The Store Except Me And Her..So Id Like To Ask, How Long Should I Stay And Hang Out With Her At Her Job And When Is It Good To Bail?... Second Off Id Like Some Tips On, Conversation or Maybe You Could Like Me To Some Articles Or Tips You Find Very Helping..... Thank You Dj's:up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you have your mind all screwed up. you should be her boss. then you can stay as long as you want. girls fall in love with dudes who are in positions of power. especially if the dude happens to be her boss.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HollowHorizon said:
:up: Going To This Girls Job Who I Never Met Before, Although I Add I Have Been Speaking To Her For A Month On Aim, Now She Works At A Womens Clothing Store, And She Is A Manager.. Tommorow Night Nobody Will Be In The Store Except Me And Her..So Id Like To Ask, How Long Should I Stay And Hang Out With Her At Her Job And When Is It Good To Bail?... Second Off Id Like Some Tips On, Conversation or Maybe You Could Like Me To Some Articles Or Tips You Find Very Helping..... Thank You Dj's:up:
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The biggest piece of advice I can give you is to not wear out your welcome.
 
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yea bro! u didnt use caps
 
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What the ****, Can I get some real advice, Everyones To Intrested On Caps........Wow, Whats this fourm comming to
 
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all i can think is don't go in till its really empty or go in early say hello mess around at her store, make her laugh then say you gotta go and to call you when shes about to get off or the stores about to close that sorta thing.Iif theres people there even co workers only so much your gonna mac, cause honestly it would add to the pressure. Also don't go in expecting to do _______ just play it as it goes, shes into it, make a move, if not don't force it all your gonna do is make it awkward. hope you can get something from this
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'd say stay 10 minutes tops


Conversation: We can't tell you exactly what to say. You need to read around about conversation. It should be natural, flow, you should LISTEN.
 
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Mate capitalising every word is over kill.

Although I do believe capitalisation is very important, like this example:

I helped my Uncle Jack off a horse

Or

I helped my uncle jack off a horse.

If you can't see the connection, go back to school..
 
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I would stay for a short time... maybe 10-15 minutes. But before you talk to her.. like when you first get into her store, be like "I can only stay for a little while because I need to ????? in a lil bit, but I figured I would stop by and see how my favorite clothing store manager is doing." or something like that. Adjust it to ur own liking/style but as long as u have a a "timer" you will be able to leave whenever you choose because you already introduced you have to go soon. Good luck ;]
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hahahahahaha bigw
 
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bigw said:
Mate capitalising every word is over kill.

Although I do believe capitalisation is very important, like this example:

I helped my Uncle Jack off a horse

Or

I helped my uncle jack off a horse.

If you can't see the connection, go back to school..
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maybe if you used commas in there and we couldnt tell the diff
 
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