"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Going To Girls Job

HollowHorizon

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:up: Going To This Girls Job Who I Never Met Before, Although I Add I Have Been Speaking To Her For A Month On Aim, Now She Works At A Womens Clothing Store, And She Is A Manager.. Tommorow Night Nobody Will Be In The Store Except Me And Her..So Id Like To Ask, How Long Should I Stay And Hang Out With Her At Her Job And When Is It Good To Bail?... Second Off Id Like Some Tips On, Conversation or Maybe You Could Like Me To Some Articles Or Tips You Find Very Helping..... Thank You Dj's:up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sparky0000

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you have your mind all screwed up. you should be her boss. then you can stay as long as you want. girls fall in love with dudes who are in positions of power. especially if the dude happens to be her boss.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Incog

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HollowHorizon said:
:up: Going To This Girls Job Who I Never Met Before, Although I Add I Have Been Speaking To Her For A Month On Aim, Now She Works At A Womens Clothing Store, And She Is A Manager.. Tommorow Night Nobody Will Be In The Store Except Me And Her..So Id Like To Ask, How Long Should I Stay And Hang Out With Her At Her Job And When Is It Good To Bail?... Second Off Id Like Some Tips On, Conversation or Maybe You Could Like Me To Some Articles Or Tips You Find Very Helping..... Thank You Dj's:up:
The biggest piece of advice I can give you is to not wear out your welcome.
 

LA_Chico

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yea bro! u didnt use caps
 

HollowHorizon

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What the ****, Can I get some real advice, Everyones To Intrested On Caps........Wow, Whats this fourm comming to
 

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all i can think is don't go in till its really empty or go in early say hello mess around at her store, make her laugh then say you gotta go and to call you when shes about to get off or the stores about to close that sorta thing.Iif theres people there even co workers only so much your gonna mac, cause honestly it would add to the pressure. Also don't go in expecting to do _______ just play it as it goes, shes into it, make a move, if not don't force it all your gonna do is make it awkward. hope you can get something from this
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Skilla_Staz

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I'd say stay 10 minutes tops


Conversation: We can't tell you exactly what to say. You need to read around about conversation. It should be natural, flow, you should LISTEN.
 

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Mate capitalising every word is over kill.

Although I do believe capitalisation is very important, like this example:

I helped my Uncle Jack off a horse

Or

I helped my uncle jack off a horse.

If you can't see the connection, go back to school..
 

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I would stay for a short time... maybe 10-15 minutes. But before you talk to her.. like when you first get into her store, be like "I can only stay for a little while because I need to ????? in a lil bit, but I figured I would stop by and see how my favorite clothing store manager is doing." or something like that. Adjust it to ur own liking/style but as long as u have a a "timer" you will be able to leave whenever you choose because you already introduced you have to go soon. Good luck ;]
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Shocker

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hahahahahaha bigw
 

dj ben2

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bigw said:
Mate capitalising every word is over kill.

Although I do believe capitalisation is very important, like this example:

I helped my Uncle Jack off a horse

Or

I helped my uncle jack off a horse.

If you can't see the connection, go back to school..

maybe if you used commas in there and we couldnt tell the diff
 
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