“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HollowHorizon

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:up: Going To This Girls Job Who I Never Met Before, Although I Add I Have Been Speaking To Her For A Month On Aim, Now She Works At A Womens Clothing Store, And She Is A Manager.. Tommorow Night Nobody Will Be In The Store Except Me And Her..So Id Like To Ask, How Long Should I Stay And Hang Out With Her At Her Job And When Is It Good To Bail?... Second Off Id Like Some Tips On, Conversation or Maybe You Could Like Me To Some Articles Or Tips You Find Very Helping..... Thank You Dj's:up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you have your mind all screwed up. you should be her boss. then you can stay as long as you want. girls fall in love with dudes who are in positions of power. especially if the dude happens to be her boss.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HollowHorizon said:
:up: Going To This Girls Job Who I Never Met Before, Although I Add I Have Been Speaking To Her For A Month On Aim, Now She Works At A Womens Clothing Store, And She Is A Manager.. Tommorow Night Nobody Will Be In The Store Except Me And Her..So Id Like To Ask, How Long Should I Stay And Hang Out With Her At Her Job And When Is It Good To Bail?... Second Off Id Like Some Tips On, Conversation or Maybe You Could Like Me To Some Articles Or Tips You Find Very Helping..... Thank You Dj's:up:
The biggest piece of advice I can give you is to not wear out your welcome.
 

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yea bro! u didnt use caps
 

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What the ****, Can I get some real advice, Everyones To Intrested On Caps........Wow, Whats this fourm comming to
 

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all i can think is don't go in till its really empty or go in early say hello mess around at her store, make her laugh then say you gotta go and to call you when shes about to get off or the stores about to close that sorta thing.Iif theres people there even co workers only so much your gonna mac, cause honestly it would add to the pressure. Also don't go in expecting to do _______ just play it as it goes, shes into it, make a move, if not don't force it all your gonna do is make it awkward. hope you can get something from this
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd say stay 10 minutes tops


Conversation: We can't tell you exactly what to say. You need to read around about conversation. It should be natural, flow, you should LISTEN.
 

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Mate capitalising every word is over kill.

Although I do believe capitalisation is very important, like this example:

I helped my Uncle Jack off a horse

Or

I helped my uncle jack off a horse.

If you can't see the connection, go back to school..
 

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I would stay for a short time... maybe 10-15 minutes. But before you talk to her.. like when you first get into her store, be like "I can only stay for a little while because I need to ????? in a lil bit, but I figured I would stop by and see how my favorite clothing store manager is doing." or something like that. Adjust it to ur own liking/style but as long as u have a a "timer" you will be able to leave whenever you choose because you already introduced you have to go soon. Good luck ;]
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hahahahahaha bigw
 

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bigw said:
Mate capitalising every word is over kill.

Although I do believe capitalisation is very important, like this example:

I helped my Uncle Jack off a horse

Or

I helped my uncle jack off a horse.

If you can't see the connection, go back to school..

maybe if you used commas in there and we couldnt tell the diff
 
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