"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Going to club w/ my girl

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I have been with this girl for 2 weeks, I have already dealt with her and tonight I am going to be attending a club with her and her lady friends.

How do I conduct myself. I read fingers advice about spicy social proof and capitalizing on the competitive nature of da ladies and I definately love running game...lol. What should I do?

Advice?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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"you have already dealt with her"

YEAH MAN YOU DA MAN.

"social proof and capitalizing on competitive nature"

YEAH MAN YOU DA MAN.

i made no sense, did I? your post made no sense either.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nice, I was getting laid while you wrote/read that post. I guess compared to you, I am the man...sarcastic ****ers!
 
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ignore the keyboard jockeys.
heres my advice.
DON'T GO TO THE CLUB!

i've just come out of a long term relationship (8 months).. getting to know her friends, and vice versa is not a good idea.. (more so her meeting ur friends..) but gossip will start. gossip will cause problems. u'll constantly be watching urself etc.

when you go out, go out with ur boys. but, do let the girl go out. make her keep her friends.

thats my advice.
 
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quest said:
i've just come out of a long term relationship (8 months)
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I'm making an academic assumption here so correct me if I'm wrong but you think the solution is to not do what you have done...previously... don't do this don't do that, isolate her... etc

A deep seated fear will lead you to lose your woman inevitably...
 
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Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
Nice, I was getting laid while you wrote/read that post. I guess compared to you, I am the man...sarcastic ****ers!
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oh yeah mr tough guy well while you wear typing THAT post i was having a threesome so there
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
I'm making an academic assumption here so correct me if I'm wrong but you think the solution is to not do what you have done...previously... don't do this don't do that, isolate her... etc

A deep seated fear will lead you to lose your woman inevitably...
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not all of what i did was bad. but i do consider the way we began to interact with each others friends occured far too early. my friends became her friends, and her friends became my friends, before i was even really a proper boyfriend, it all grew together, and then, when it ended, i couldn't get rid of her and had to cut alot of my friends off (although this is almost all fixed now).

talking to other friends, and seeing there relationships, the guy who is by far the most successful kept me, and others, from befriending his girlfriend until well after 6 months.
by that time, she was completely and utterly his, and therefor, would not be involved in the gossipy **** the other girls (who we ALL introduced to early) got involved in.

i have no doubt that the personalities of these girls also comes into it.. but i firmly beleive that they were all introduced too soon.
 
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while you all were typing that i was taking a s.hit
 
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Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
Using your right AND left doesnt consititute as a threesome to me...but whatevs
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well getting laid doesnt mean getting the dog to lick off the peanut butter but whatevs
 
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if u guys aren't going to post things which are atleast somewhat constructive, why aren't you out sarging? or studying? or building your body... or anything, read a book or something..
guys, do something to better urself..
 
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