"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have been with this girl for 2 weeks, I have already dealt with her and tonight I am going to be attending a club with her and her lady friends.

How do I conduct myself. I read fingers advice about spicy social proof and capitalizing on the competitive nature of da ladies and I definately love running game...lol. What should I do?

Advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"you have already dealt with her"

YEAH MAN YOU DA MAN.

"social proof and capitalizing on competitive nature"

YEAH MAN YOU DA MAN.

i made no sense, did I? your post made no sense either.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nice, I was getting laid while you wrote/read that post. I guess compared to you, I am the man...sarcastic ****ers!
 

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ignore the keyboard jockeys.
heres my advice.
DON'T GO TO THE CLUB!

i've just come out of a long term relationship (8 months).. getting to know her friends, and vice versa is not a good idea.. (more so her meeting ur friends..) but gossip will start. gossip will cause problems. u'll constantly be watching urself etc.

when you go out, go out with ur boys. but, do let the girl go out. make her keep her friends.

thats my advice.
 

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quest said:
i've just come out of a long term relationship (8 months)
I'm making an academic assumption here so correct me if I'm wrong but you think the solution is to not do what you have done...previously... don't do this don't do that, isolate her... etc

A deep seated fear will lead you to lose your woman inevitably...
 

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Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
Nice, I was getting laid while you wrote/read that post. I guess compared to you, I am the man...sarcastic ****ers!
oh yeah mr tough guy well while you wear typing THAT post i was having a threesome so there
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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quest

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
I'm making an academic assumption here so correct me if I'm wrong but you think the solution is to not do what you have done...previously... don't do this don't do that, isolate her... etc

A deep seated fear will lead you to lose your woman inevitably...
not all of what i did was bad. but i do consider the way we began to interact with each others friends occured far too early. my friends became her friends, and her friends became my friends, before i was even really a proper boyfriend, it all grew together, and then, when it ended, i couldn't get rid of her and had to cut alot of my friends off (although this is almost all fixed now).

talking to other friends, and seeing there relationships, the guy who is by far the most successful kept me, and others, from befriending his girlfriend until well after 6 months.
by that time, she was completely and utterly his, and therefor, would not be involved in the gossipy **** the other girls (who we ALL introduced to early) got involved in.

i have no doubt that the personalities of these girls also comes into it.. but i firmly beleive that they were all introduced too soon.
 

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while you all were typing that i was taking a s.hit
 

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Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
Using your right AND left doesnt consititute as a threesome to me...but whatevs
well getting laid doesnt mean getting the dog to lick off the peanut butter but whatevs
 

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if u guys aren't going to post things which are atleast somewhat constructive, why aren't you out sarging? or studying? or building your body... or anything, read a book or something..
guys, do something to better urself..
 
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