Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Going to China, Where's the sluts?

SharinganUser

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I am planning a trip to china. I have to research where to go first. I have heard that some women in china are ultra conservative, and others are easy for a 6ft 1in white guy like me to pick up.

Where are the easiest women in China?



*no I am not going to china just to get laid. I just want to eat out chinese while I am there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zerotwoonenine

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ok man i am chinese, born and bred in china and moved to england at the age of 11.
Our culture is: if shes not in love with u, she wont go in the bed with u, end of story.
Unless u get a prostitute, i am still getting used to the "sex first, love later" attitude of western societies even after 7 years of coming to england.
 

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Moral of the story: get really, REALLY good at making girls fall in love with you super quick.

Hell that's useful anyway.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This may help you: http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=233

Long story short, it looks like China's cities are modernizing quickly and coming up to Western morals in many cases. If you're sticking with the cities, then any woman who works in a white collar type job is likely to have picked up a decent degree of Western morals, even if she doesn't necessarily subscribe to them herself.

I'm only really familiar with Beijing, but the clubbing scene there is drawing a lot of Chinese women who want to meet westerners. This isn't the same as back in 1980, when they wanted to get married and leave the country :eek: Instead, they're more likely to be looking for a quick lay with somebody who's not like 99% of all the guys around them so they can chalk it up to experience.

If you're there for New Year's Eve, that helps sort out the wheat from the chaff. The Chinese don't normally celebrate Jan 1, so the girls who ARE out in clubs will be there specifically to meet people who do celebrate Jan 1, i.e. foreigners.

Beware - a lot of them are likely to ask for money in return. Depending on where you are, merely being an unattached male walking in the streets will be enough to get you a LOT of invitations to strip clubs and massage parlors. Conversely, if you're looking for any sort of negotiated companionship, then make sure you don't have any females in your group (even those who are looking for similar company) because that scares the sharks away.
 

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Prostitutes are cheap.. pull out a 5 dollars bill and watch the ladies fall on their knees with their tongues out.. lols
 

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ya and escorts mean no commitment, and there probley good at what they do for the return buisness.
 

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Sriracha is my new favorite hot sauce :up:

Just thought I'd share.
 

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Unless you are fluent in Mandarin or another dialect you'll have to stick to prostitutes or the occasional student.

It'll be a lot easier if you are going over there to study. If not, hang around the universities. Everyone is eager to practice english. A certain level of english was required for the college I studied in. The one girl I "dated" was a singer at the Grand Hyatt bar, she was a student at the music college. Her english was perfect. Chinese girls have to feel "safe" with you to even look you in the eye in most cases.

I was in Beijing for about 5 weeks and the city is still pretty traditional. Shanghai is your best bet to find a short thing but they are used to whites. Don't go in expecting anything. A 6'1" white person is just a freak thing to many of the noncity people. I had people come up and ask to take pictures with me because they were from the country.

LIke the other guy said, clubs are a good option too. Club girls are the same everywhere. I was dancing with one girl in Beijing(funny place, lots of Karoake and a LED screen kept flashing Black Power) and I got an erection and she ran away, talked to her friends giggled, and came back.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Celadus said:
LIke the other guy said, clubs are a good option too. Club girls are the same everywhere. I was dancing with one girl in Beijing(funny place, lots of Karoake and a LED screen kept flashing Black Power) and I got an erection and she ran away, talked to her friends giggled, and came back.
LOL! :yes:
 

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I saw on wildon that chinese women at the clubs will make out with you cause you're a dif colour and want to go home after only about an hour or so, where can I find these women?
 

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you can score easily with the club trash girls. My friend has fvcked over 100 of them. his way of picking them up is to give them eye contact then beckon them over with his finger then speak english to them-- of course these kind fo girls have STDs sometimes and the have been used more times than a fat white girl in a black town..
 

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lmao

I thought Hong Kong was the place to get laid in that area? Im sure you can find the clubs around whatever city you'll be in, maybe shanghai? Just be sure to wrap it up tight!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pu-Tang clan bro!
 

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SharinganUser said:
I am planning a trip to china. I have to research where to go first. I have heard that some women in china are ultra conservative, and others are easy for a 6ft 1in white guy like me to pick up.

Where are the easiest women in China?



*no I am not going to china just to get laid. I just want to eat out chinese while I am there.
Your a moron and this thread is stupid. I hope you get your organs taken by the Chinese Mafia for trying to take advantage of their women.
 

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Lol I knew there were a bunch of mongers on this board!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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