"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Going to China, Where's the sluts?

SharinganUser

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I am planning a trip to china. I have to research where to go first. I have heard that some women in china are ultra conservative, and others are easy for a 6ft 1in white guy like me to pick up.

Where are the easiest women in China?



*no I am not going to china just to get laid. I just want to eat out chinese while I am there.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zerotwoonenine

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ok man i am chinese, born and bred in china and moved to england at the age of 11.
Our culture is: if shes not in love with u, she wont go in the bed with u, end of story.
Unless u get a prostitute, i am still getting used to the "sex first, love later" attitude of western societies even after 7 years of coming to england.
 

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Moral of the story: get really, REALLY good at making girls fall in love with you super quick.

Hell that's useful anyway.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This may help you: http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=233

Long story short, it looks like China's cities are modernizing quickly and coming up to Western morals in many cases. If you're sticking with the cities, then any woman who works in a white collar type job is likely to have picked up a decent degree of Western morals, even if she doesn't necessarily subscribe to them herself.

I'm only really familiar with Beijing, but the clubbing scene there is drawing a lot of Chinese women who want to meet westerners. This isn't the same as back in 1980, when they wanted to get married and leave the country :eek: Instead, they're more likely to be looking for a quick lay with somebody who's not like 99% of all the guys around them so they can chalk it up to experience.

If you're there for New Year's Eve, that helps sort out the wheat from the chaff. The Chinese don't normally celebrate Jan 1, so the girls who ARE out in clubs will be there specifically to meet people who do celebrate Jan 1, i.e. foreigners.

Beware - a lot of them are likely to ask for money in return. Depending on where you are, merely being an unattached male walking in the streets will be enough to get you a LOT of invitations to strip clubs and massage parlors. Conversely, if you're looking for any sort of negotiated companionship, then make sure you don't have any females in your group (even those who are looking for similar company) because that scares the sharks away.
 

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Prostitutes are cheap.. pull out a 5 dollars bill and watch the ladies fall on their knees with their tongues out.. lols
 

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ya and escorts mean no commitment, and there probley good at what they do for the return buisness.
 

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Sriracha is my new favorite hot sauce :up:

Just thought I'd share.
 

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Unless you are fluent in Mandarin or another dialect you'll have to stick to prostitutes or the occasional student.

It'll be a lot easier if you are going over there to study. If not, hang around the universities. Everyone is eager to practice english. A certain level of english was required for the college I studied in. The one girl I "dated" was a singer at the Grand Hyatt bar, she was a student at the music college. Her english was perfect. Chinese girls have to feel "safe" with you to even look you in the eye in most cases.

I was in Beijing for about 5 weeks and the city is still pretty traditional. Shanghai is your best bet to find a short thing but they are used to whites. Don't go in expecting anything. A 6'1" white person is just a freak thing to many of the noncity people. I had people come up and ask to take pictures with me because they were from the country.

LIke the other guy said, clubs are a good option too. Club girls are the same everywhere. I was dancing with one girl in Beijing(funny place, lots of Karoake and a LED screen kept flashing Black Power) and I got an erection and she ran away, talked to her friends giggled, and came back.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Celadus said:
LIke the other guy said, clubs are a good option too. Club girls are the same everywhere. I was dancing with one girl in Beijing(funny place, lots of Karoake and a LED screen kept flashing Black Power) and I got an erection and she ran away, talked to her friends giggled, and came back.
LOL! :yes:
 

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I saw on wildon that chinese women at the clubs will make out with you cause you're a dif colour and want to go home after only about an hour or so, where can I find these women?
 

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you can score easily with the club trash girls. My friend has fvcked over 100 of them. his way of picking them up is to give them eye contact then beckon them over with his finger then speak english to them-- of course these kind fo girls have STDs sometimes and the have been used more times than a fat white girl in a black town..
 

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lmao

I thought Hong Kong was the place to get laid in that area? Im sure you can find the clubs around whatever city you'll be in, maybe shanghai? Just be sure to wrap it up tight!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pu-Tang clan bro!
 

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SharinganUser said:
I am planning a trip to china. I have to research where to go first. I have heard that some women in china are ultra conservative, and others are easy for a 6ft 1in white guy like me to pick up.

Where are the easiest women in China?



*no I am not going to china just to get laid. I just want to eat out chinese while I am there.
Your a moron and this thread is stupid. I hope you get your organs taken by the Chinese Mafia for trying to take advantage of their women.
 

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Lol I knew there were a bunch of mongers on this board!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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