"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Going to a bar alone to practice our game

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FIRST OF ALL - Sorry for my bad english

Saturday I went to the bar alone for the second time. I drank two beer alone at the bar, it was jam packed. After around 45 minutes I was getting adapted to my environment and two girls with a guy approched to the bar and were waiting to get drinks. I talked to one of the girl ( the uglier one ) and asked her if they would want to play pool. They said yes. we played a little bit. (Not even an entire game ) My goal was to bring the hb7 home as the hb8 seemed to be with the guy. Dont get me wrong he looked focking mad when I was approching her. I didnt gave a single **** and worked my way with the ''bridge'' girl, took her outside and left her there to go inside again and try to get the other girl. Finally she told me that the other guy was not her bf and that he was weird, she wasnt even talking to him she said. well green light I started to kino her, playing ****y and funny and eventually the other girl came back inside and she was so mad she left with the guy that was with them. I was alone with the hb8, bought her drinks, she had very high interest, Ask her to come home because I didnt want to sleep alone. She said yes, called a cab, drink a couple drinks home and she asked to watch a movie in my bedroom, we went to my bedroom and then she sucked me, I ate her ***** AND her ass, It was pretty nice. We plan on seeing each others this week. Going at the bar alone is pretty good in my opinion

PS: I got the number of one of the barmaid, she said it's the first time she's doing that. Pretty proud of myself but I'm never gonna text her, she's not very good looking. Maybe an hb6
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like a good night, and a good example of what guys should do more of. Just mingle. The pool table is one of the best places to meet women, especially if you are good and there is competition.

I've run the table a couple times in front of dates and you can get HB9's that way, provided you are beating the local Alpha.
 

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Sounds like a good night, and a good example of what guys should do more of. Just mingle. The pool table is one of the best places to meet women, especially if you are good and there is competition.
I've run the table a couple times in front of dates and you can get HB9's that way, provided you are beating the local Alpha.
It's a very smooth way to approach a group of girl, you stand at the bar and when they come to get drinks you just ask them if they want to play pool. Pretty easy and it works like a charm. I'm still a beginner in the don juan path so I'm pretty proud of myself, maybe next time I'll try with an hb9 but they're always with like 5 ****ing douche that are turning around like a fly on ****
 

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Good job mate. Asking them to play pool is a great way to start a convo and escalate. Plus you can get some kino in.

Girls are pretty sh!t at pool so I tell them they win a prize if they can beat me.
 

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Nice post. Sounds like a great night. This forum needs more field reports like this.

I've thought about going out alone before but haven't worked up the balls to do it yet. I'm finally doing approaches at the bar without wings. Maybe going out alone is my next step to moving farther out of my comfort zone.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice post. Sounds like a great night. This forum needs more field reports like this.

I've thought about going out alone before but haven't worked up the balls to do it yet. I'm finally doing approaches at the bar without wings. Maybe going out alone is my next step to moving farther out of my comfort zone.
Honestly guys dont give a s*** if you're sitting alone at the bar but girls seems to notice you more. I think it brings a little bit of *Mistery* as to why is he sitting there alone.. I mean, it work if you got a decent style, look. At the beginning I was anxious but the more times you're there, the more comfortable you get.. And you just wait for a good opportunity and ...
 

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Good story. Where are you from? In some countries, going out alone is more common than in others. In North America, it has unfortunately become very uncommon, to a point where women would ask you "where are your friends?"
 

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Good story. Where are you from? In some countries, going out alone is more common than in others. In North America, it has unfortunately become very uncommon, to a point where women would ask you "where are your friends?"
I'm from Canada.. Quebec where the majority speaks french.. They do ask it but I tell them that I'm new in the cities and that I'm here to meet new people. They dig that
 

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FIRST OF ALL - Sorry for my bad english

Saturday I went to the bar alone for the second time. I drank two beer alone at the bar, it was jam packed. After around 45 minutes I was getting adapted to my environment and two girls with a guy approched to the bar and were waiting to get drinks. I talked to one of the girl ( the uglier one ) and asked her if they would want to play pool. They said yes. we played a little bit. (Not even an entire game ) My goal was to bring the hb7 home as the hb8 seemed to be with the guy. Dont get me wrong he looked focking mad when I was approching her. I didnt gave a single **** and worked my way with the ''bridge'' girl, took her outside and left her there to go inside again and try to get the other girl. Finally she told me that the other guy was not her bf and that he was weird, she wasnt even talking to him she said. well green light I started to kino her, playing ****y and funny and eventually the other girl came back inside and she was so mad she left with the guy that was with them. I was alone with the hb8, bought her drinks, she had very high interest, Ask her to come home because I didnt want to sleep alone. She said yes, called a cab, drink a couple drinks home and she asked to watch a movie in my bedroom, we went to my bedroom and then she sucked me, I ate her ***** AND her ass, It was pretty nice. We plan on seeing each others this week. Going at the bar alone is pretty good in my opinion

PS: I got the number of one of the barmaid, she said it's the first time she's doing that. Pretty proud of myself but I'm never gonna text her, she's not very good looking. Maybe an hb6
Not to discredit you but you are also very handsome. This contributed to the success.
Its easy when you are nice looking. Use your looks to your advantage.
 

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Not to discredit you but you are also very handsome. This contributed to the success.
Its easy when you are nice looking. Use your looks to your advantage.
Well I have social anxiety, I do agree that it helps a ton. I work 6 days a week for this, my diet is really strict and I'm taking care of myself but looks doesnt do everything if you look awkward because of awkward social interaction due to social anxiety. It's helping curing that anxiety, going against my fear and I'm becoming better at it. Engaging conversation without looking awkward is hard when youre very anxious
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It's a very smooth way to approach a group of girl, you stand at the bar and when they come to get drinks you just ask them if they want to play pool. Pretty easy and it works like a charm. I'm still a beginner in the don juan path so I'm pretty proud of myself, maybe next time I'll try with an hb9 but they're always with like 5 ****ing douche that are turning around like a fly on ****
One of my best pickups of all time was from me and my buddy just chilling at the bar talking when this stunning girl walks by and I loudly say hello and she turns and smiles at me and says hello back....

Didn't think anything of it til a little while later as we started moving through the place(it was a big bar with a lot of room and some pool tables, etc) and every time we moved I notice her and her girlfriend moved with us...finally end up breaking the ice after a while by accusing her of stalking me and it was a pretty interesting and fun night after that...

It really CAN be that simple guys. Just say hello.
 

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I'm from Canada.. Quebec where the majority speaks french.. They do ask it but I tell them that I'm new in the cities and that I'm here to meet new people. They dig that
Damn man...we need the Nordiques back in the NHL bro...loved watching that team growing up with the Stasny's and Goulet although they caused me a lot a heartbreak as a Sabres fan...awesome logo too...
 

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Great story and good for you. Little advice if I can. In life you get one number that can always connect you to more. Everything is not about the lay......... it's about the connections you want to lay.

You're the prize. Imagine that girl you would never text introducing you to girls you would!

Now you get the game!

Happy hunting.
 
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