What does this actually mean when a woman says it?
When I've heard this before it was just words to excuse supposed "slvt" behavior later that night when I smash.
It can mean lots of things, she might have a timetable to sex "6 date rule" or w/e, or maybe doesn't want to rush in and ruin it what you have, or maybe she is not fully in it and wants a chance to back out later?
Any of the older guys got some pearls of wisdom you can spray across my neck on this one?
It depends entirely on the context
Some girls are virgins/inexperienced and to them sex is like agreeing to become a vampire or let a demon take your soul
Some girls are prudes and just don't really like/care about sex.
Some girls are control freaks who want to things to happen on their whims
Some girls are following some wacko superstituous rulebook they got out of a magazine or TV show or from some chronically single friend of theirs
Some girls are stringing you along for attention or to gold dig or as a backup
Most of them are some variety of not actually all that into you, otherwise they would be horny, not logical or rational or reserved
In almost no case is it a good or acceptable thing, push past it if you can, find a new girl or dread game if you can't.
Yeah she has trust issues and struggles to open up and had a few issues in her past.
What’s the other alternative to her not liking me? Because I know for sure this broad likes me and I’m not gonna argue it. We have already smashed, yes, it’s the girl who is currently my tenant who I’ve been friend with over a year, we had a long talk Sunday, said we should get to know each other better, she said let’s go get std tested together seeing as she’s on the pill and I hate condoms.l although we have not smashed since and both said we shouldn’t smash drunk, at least for a while (yeah whatever).
And she was like, let’s just take it slow. In my mind I’m thinking to go on these dates with other chicks I have waiting in the wings. One 19 year old I was seeing years ago reached out yesterday, apparently had a “dream” about me, she’s now 22 and wants to meet me.
All the while im thinking this btch I’m living with don’t want me bringing chicks back. But is not hesitant to let me steamroll and smash daily, we did agree living together makes it a sensitive situation. I’m struggling to escalate from this position, I’m like a turtle on its back.
It’s her bday Friday and she’s asked for bday sex to which I said yes.
...this is the same cocaine addicted party girl who bangs random guys at your house and tells you they're friends?
The same one you've known for years?
And she wants to take things slow?
She wants to cuck you into a beta bux provider that she pays for rent with once a month sex rather than money, don't accept that awful deal bro.
Do as you please, don't let her get you into a submission hold