"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Going red (its horrible) advice?

johnmich

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When a girl is talking to you and givs eye contact, i go red (also known as blushing) for some reason.

the more i try to not do it, i do it more and its hard to stop.

It makes me feel like an idiot and its visible so they see it .

Any advice what to do wen this happens or something to prevent it (without wearing make up)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Smooth Player 056

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This has to do with social anxiety. Some people sweat, some, cant think (get uncomfortable), and some get red. The roots of this problem is your anxiety...since your 18 I suggest doing soemthing similar to what Style did. Find a reputable hypnotist or neuro linguistic programer in your area and he will rid you of your blushing and tension. There is also perscription medication to help this problem...
 

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You might have that thing where your blood vessels in your face are too close to your skin, making your face looking red. Don't ask how I know, even I don't.
 

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Ok, so you blush, because your nervous. The only way to cure nervousness or anxiety is to face up to it.

Guess what im saying ispractice makes perfect, the more chicks you talk 2 it becomes easier.

So talk more, approach more chicks, the more you talk the easier it gets. then all youve got 2 worry abnout is whether to use lubed or no-lubed condoms.

youll get there in the end.
 
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