"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Going red (its horrible) advice?

johnmich

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When a girl is talking to you and givs eye contact, i go red (also known as blushing) for some reason.

the more i try to not do it, i do it more and its hard to stop.

It makes me feel like an idiot and its visible so they see it .

Any advice what to do wen this happens or something to prevent it (without wearing make up)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Smooth Player 056

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This has to do with social anxiety. Some people sweat, some, cant think (get uncomfortable), and some get red. The roots of this problem is your anxiety...since your 18 I suggest doing soemthing similar to what Style did. Find a reputable hypnotist or neuro linguistic programer in your area and he will rid you of your blushing and tension. There is also perscription medication to help this problem...
 

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You might have that thing where your blood vessels in your face are too close to your skin, making your face looking red. Don't ask how I know, even I don't.
 

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Ok, so you blush, because your nervous. The only way to cure nervousness or anxiety is to face up to it.

Guess what im saying ispractice makes perfect, the more chicks you talk 2 it becomes easier.

So talk more, approach more chicks, the more you talk the easier it gets. then all youve got 2 worry abnout is whether to use lubed or no-lubed condoms.

youll get there in the end.
 
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