"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Going red (its horrible) advice?

johnmich

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When a girl is talking to you and givs eye contact, i go red (also known as blushing) for some reason.

the more i try to not do it, i do it more and its hard to stop.

It makes me feel like an idiot and its visible so they see it .

Any advice what to do wen this happens or something to prevent it (without wearing make up)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Smooth Player 056

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This has to do with social anxiety. Some people sweat, some, cant think (get uncomfortable), and some get red. The roots of this problem is your anxiety...since your 18 I suggest doing soemthing similar to what Style did. Find a reputable hypnotist or neuro linguistic programer in your area and he will rid you of your blushing and tension. There is also perscription medication to help this problem...
 

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You might have that thing where your blood vessels in your face are too close to your skin, making your face looking red. Don't ask how I know, even I don't.
 

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Ok, so you blush, because your nervous. The only way to cure nervousness or anxiety is to face up to it.

Guess what im saying ispractice makes perfect, the more chicks you talk 2 it becomes easier.

So talk more, approach more chicks, the more you talk the easier it gets. then all youve got 2 worry abnout is whether to use lubed or no-lubed condoms.

youll get there in the end.
 
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