"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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going out tomorrow....

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yeah sure i have been out before.... but not like this. i am going out with a wingman .

was just wondering if you had any useful tips i could use?

don't really have any expectations, as in: i know i will blow every set i open, but that's just to be expected.

so what say you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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well you can start by not thinking you are going to blow every set you open, your already thinking of failure before its happened and usally its a self fulfilling prophecy
 
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scribblec said:
well you can start by not thinking you are going to blow every set you open, your already thinking of failure before its happened and usally its a self fulfilling prophecy
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i don't think of it like that... i think of it more.. i'm not going to get the big results straight up.

i didn't mean it as like " oh i suck so i won't do any good"

i meant it as. " this is my first time going out, so don't expect any special"
 
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