"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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going out tomorrow....

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yeah sure i have been out before.... but not like this. i am going out with a wingman .

was just wondering if you had any useful tips i could use?

don't really have any expectations, as in: i know i will blow every set i open, but that's just to be expected.

so what say you?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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well you can start by not thinking you are going to blow every set you open, your already thinking of failure before its happened and usally its a self fulfilling prophecy
 

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scribblec said:
well you can start by not thinking you are going to blow every set you open, your already thinking of failure before its happened and usally its a self fulfilling prophecy

i don't think of it like that... i think of it more.. i'm not going to get the big results straight up.

i didn't mean it as like " oh i suck so i won't do any good"

i meant it as. " this is my first time going out, so don't expect any special"
 
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