"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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going out tomorrow....

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yeah sure i have been out before.... but not like this. i am going out with a wingman .

was just wondering if you had any useful tips i could use?

don't really have any expectations, as in: i know i will blow every set i open, but that's just to be expected.

so what say you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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well you can start by not thinking you are going to blow every set you open, your already thinking of failure before its happened and usally its a self fulfilling prophecy
 
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scribblec said:
well you can start by not thinking you are going to blow every set you open, your already thinking of failure before its happened and usally its a self fulfilling prophecy
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i don't think of it like that... i think of it more.. i'm not going to get the big results straight up.

i didn't mean it as like " oh i suck so i won't do any good"

i meant it as. " this is my first time going out, so don't expect any special"
 
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