"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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going out tomorrow....

Packers2010

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yeah sure i have been out before.... but not like this. i am going out with a wingman .

was just wondering if you had any useful tips i could use?

don't really have any expectations, as in: i know i will blow every set i open, but that's just to be expected.

so what say you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well you can start by not thinking you are going to blow every set you open, your already thinking of failure before its happened and usally its a self fulfilling prophecy
 

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scribblec said:
well you can start by not thinking you are going to blow every set you open, your already thinking of failure before its happened and usally its a self fulfilling prophecy

i don't think of it like that... i think of it more.. i'm not going to get the big results straight up.

i didn't mean it as like " oh i suck so i won't do any good"

i meant it as. " this is my first time going out, so don't expect any special"
 
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