Okay guys, this one girl is really interested in me, but we live 15-20 minutes away (different counties) and she's always asking when we can hang out. Trouble is, my parents don't know her, I've never been on a date before (parents not used to this so I feel akward telling them that I'll be going on a date), and I have no way of getting there. The other night when we were supposed to go out I told my parents that a few friends would be picking me up and dropping me off...but that didn't work out because her friends weren't available to give her a ride. My mom seems overprotective and when I said my friend was picking me up with another friend and his girlfriend and she started asking a lot of questions about them, because she doesn't know them. And then she said "YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND?" and I said "no mom...." So I'm kinda worried how she'll react if I told her I'm going on a date. Any tips on how to be able to go on dates (meeting wise..transportation and whatnot) and also how to slip the parents.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Going Out on Dates
- Thread starter jlazz
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
OMG my mom is an exact copy. Damn it sucks. If you tell her you are going on a date she will be way too weird about it so just tell her you are going out with some friends, get a bus or cab or something and then go do something cheap.
Well I don't really know because that's expensive. Dating chicks from other counties is hard especially when you are under driving age. I guess you are screwed. lol.
Well I don't really know because that's expensive. Dating chicks from other counties is hard especially when you are under driving age. I guess you are screwed. lol.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
ahhh its good to see people who have it worse than me.
lol my dad picked me up from this chicks house and we started talking about how ***** was holding out on kissing/making out. lol its great. little rough on parties etc as i dont know my ground yet but at least we can openly talk about it.
plus he found a condom and my wallet. what a laugh we had.
lol my dad picked me up from this chicks house and we started talking about how ***** was holding out on kissing/making out. lol its great. little rough on parties etc as i dont know my ground yet but at least we can openly talk about it.
plus he found a condom and my wallet. what a laugh we had.
Yeah that's great. If mom ever found me with a condom she would never trust me ever again. She was telling me about this aweful video game(Vice city) that she was so glad I didn't play those games. I have Vice City. lol. And all the property. How I can't hang out at my cousins because he looks at porn. lol. I feel kind of bad how much I lie to her.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
my mosm foudn condoms[unused] like 3 times. she cried the first time lol.
and when i went tot he beach last week she goe s"patrick, invite those girls u met on the beach over. we'll leave u alone." she yelled at my cousins and bro for spying on me with the girls.
she can be pretty badass, minus the whole groundings for drinking and lying. w/e.
and when i went tot he beach last week she goe s"patrick, invite those girls u met on the beach over. we'll leave u alone." she yelled at my cousins and bro for spying on me with the girls.
she can be pretty badass, minus the whole groundings for drinking and lying. w/e.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Do you think if I'm open and honest with them they'll be cool about it? My dad is cool 99% of the time, but I've never brought up the topic of having a girlfriend. I was thinking of asking him "would you let me date girls" or "would you let me have a girlfriend?" and see how he responds. I would probably bring it up with him first since my mom is a worried freak and doesn't want her "baby" to get hurt and I'm 17 lol.
Well it depends on your dad. Mine was an ******* and a Drunk. lol and my mom is way to worriesom to tell but it seems like you got it ok. so I would talk to your dad first becaus ehe will talk to your mom for you and get her not to freak out about it.
But yeah relay everything you want your mom to know to your dad because he will probaly get her calmed down. lol.
But yeah relay everything you want your mom to know to your dad because he will probaly get her calmed down. lol.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
man i always thought the badass thing was drinking. girlfriends? my dad asks me if they're hot on a one to ten scale.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
take it easy. some kids have amish-esque parents.