Okay guys, this one girl is really interested in me, but we live 15-20 minutes away (different counties) and she's always asking when we can hang out. Trouble is, my parents don't know her, I've never been on a date before (parents not used to this so I feel akward telling them that I'll be going on a date), and I have no way of getting there. The other night when we were supposed to go out I told my parents that a few friends would be picking me up and dropping me off...but that didn't work out because her friends weren't available to give her a ride. My mom seems overprotective and when I said my friend was picking me up with another friend and his girlfriend and she started asking a lot of questions about them, because she doesn't know them. And then she said "YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND?" and I said "no mom...." So I'm kinda worried how she'll react if I told her I'm going on a date. Any tips on how to be able to go on dates (meeting wise..transportation and whatnot) and also how to slip the parents.
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Going Out on Dates
- Thread starter jlazz
- Start date
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Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
OMG my mom is an exact copy. Damn it sucks. If you tell her you are going on a date she will be way too weird about it so just tell her you are going out with some friends, get a bus or cab or something and then go do something cheap.
Well I don't really know because that's expensive. Dating chicks from other counties is hard especially when you are under driving age. I guess you are screwed. lol.
Well I don't really know because that's expensive. Dating chicks from other counties is hard especially when you are under driving age. I guess you are screwed. lol.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
ahhh its good to see people who have it worse than me.
lol my dad picked me up from this chicks house and we started talking about how ***** was holding out on kissing/making out. lol its great. little rough on parties etc as i dont know my ground yet but at least we can openly talk about it.
plus he found a condom and my wallet. what a laugh we had.
lol my dad picked me up from this chicks house and we started talking about how ***** was holding out on kissing/making out. lol its great. little rough on parties etc as i dont know my ground yet but at least we can openly talk about it.
plus he found a condom and my wallet. what a laugh we had.
Yeah that's great. If mom ever found me with a condom she would never trust me ever again. She was telling me about this aweful video game(Vice city) that she was so glad I didn't play those games. I have Vice City. lol. And all the property. How I can't hang out at my cousins because he looks at porn. lol. I feel kind of bad how much I lie to her.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
my mosm foudn condoms[unused] like 3 times. she cried the first time lol.
and when i went tot he beach last week she goe s"patrick, invite those girls u met on the beach over. we'll leave u alone." she yelled at my cousins and bro for spying on me with the girls.
she can be pretty badass, minus the whole groundings for drinking and lying. w/e.
and when i went tot he beach last week she goe s"patrick, invite those girls u met on the beach over. we'll leave u alone." she yelled at my cousins and bro for spying on me with the girls.
she can be pretty badass, minus the whole groundings for drinking and lying. w/e.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Do you think if I'm open and honest with them they'll be cool about it? My dad is cool 99% of the time, but I've never brought up the topic of having a girlfriend. I was thinking of asking him "would you let me date girls" or "would you let me have a girlfriend?" and see how he responds. I would probably bring it up with him first since my mom is a worried freak and doesn't want her "baby" to get hurt and I'm 17 lol.
Well it depends on your dad. Mine was an ******* and a Drunk. lol and my mom is way to worriesom to tell but it seems like you got it ok. so I would talk to your dad first becaus ehe will talk to your mom for you and get her not to freak out about it.
But yeah relay everything you want your mom to know to your dad because he will probaly get her calmed down. lol.
But yeah relay everything you want your mom to know to your dad because he will probaly get her calmed down. lol.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
man i always thought the badass thing was drinking. girlfriends? my dad asks me if they're hot on a one to ten scale.
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dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
take it easy. some kids have amish-esque parents.