"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Going on vacation to meet a shy hot girl.

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Hi guys,

It's really been a while. I have a new case and would like your opinion on it.

I'm going to Germany in 5 days to meet a really good-looking girl I've known from vacation a couple of years ago, nothing happened back then. I will sleep at her house. Everything looks set right?

There are a few problems though. She is shy and she still lives at her parents. I know that negs don't work really well with shy girls while building rapport and still being playful does.

Do you guys have any tips on how I could close this girl?
Thanks in advance.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thanks for your response.

Yes that makes sense. However she still lives with her parents, so I guess I will have to wait with the f close for the right moment.
 

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Haha, no I've never made that link nor have I seen the movie. This is just an uncommon situation so I wanted to hear your guys' opinions on it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Man . . . Going on vacation just to meet a girl? . . . you shouldn't be going to such efforts just to get with one girl, or any amount of girls in fact. I wish you the best in the situation, but seriously, up yr game so you don't have to go catch a plane to Germany to get with someone.

It's far more convenient to bang the girl next door if you know what I mean. One of the main points in being a Don Juan is being able to get laid ANYWHERE (in reasonable situations) that's what you need to be aiming for. You'll get there, just don't stop improving yr game!
 
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