"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Going on vacation to meet a shy hot girl.

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Hi guys,

It's really been a while. I have a new case and would like your opinion on it.

I'm going to Germany in 5 days to meet a really good-looking girl I've known from vacation a couple of years ago, nothing happened back then. I will sleep at her house. Everything looks set right?

There are a few problems though. She is shy and she still lives at her parents. I know that negs don't work really well with shy girls while building rapport and still being playful does.

Do you guys have any tips on how I could close this girl?
Thanks in advance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thanks for your response.

Yes that makes sense. However she still lives with her parents, so I guess I will have to wait with the f close for the right moment.
 

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Haha, no I've never made that link nor have I seen the movie. This is just an uncommon situation so I wanted to hear your guys' opinions on it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Man . . . Going on vacation just to meet a girl? . . . you shouldn't be going to such efforts just to get with one girl, or any amount of girls in fact. I wish you the best in the situation, but seriously, up yr game so you don't have to go catch a plane to Germany to get with someone.

It's far more convenient to bang the girl next door if you know what I mean. One of the main points in being a Don Juan is being able to get laid ANYWHERE (in reasonable situations) that's what you need to be aiming for. You'll get there, just don't stop improving yr game!
 
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