"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Going on vacation to meet a shy hot girl.

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Hi guys,

It's really been a while. I have a new case and would like your opinion on it.

I'm going to Germany in 5 days to meet a really good-looking girl I've known from vacation a couple of years ago, nothing happened back then. I will sleep at her house. Everything looks set right?

There are a few problems though. She is shy and she still lives at her parents. I know that negs don't work really well with shy girls while building rapport and still being playful does.

Do you guys have any tips on how I could close this girl?
Thanks in advance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thanks for your response.

Yes that makes sense. However she still lives with her parents, so I guess I will have to wait with the f close for the right moment.
 
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Haha, no I've never made that link nor have I seen the movie. This is just an uncommon situation so I wanted to hear your guys' opinions on it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Man . . . Going on vacation just to meet a girl? . . . you shouldn't be going to such efforts just to get with one girl, or any amount of girls in fact. I wish you the best in the situation, but seriously, up yr game so you don't have to go catch a plane to Germany to get with someone.

It's far more convenient to bang the girl next door if you know what I mean. One of the main points in being a Don Juan is being able to get laid ANYWHERE (in reasonable situations) that's what you need to be aiming for. You'll get there, just don't stop improving yr game!
 
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