Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Or just "Ive decided to not go. Take care". No further communication necessary."I don't think it's worth my time to go on a children's cruise in the friendzone when there is a deadly disease ingesting airlines and cruiselines. There is zero benefit to me at this point."
No way. This little drama isn’t over yet.Delete or lock this thread. No sense in keeping it open.
Covid saved me actually. I got a refund and everything. She’s tried to reach out a couple times, even used the old standby excuses but they haven’t worked. Her mom has seen pics of other girls I’ve been dating on my social media and I know word got back to her.So, did you finally go on this cruise or not?
So you've been less "stupid" overall as a result of not being allowed to continue that situation? God bless...Covid saved me actually. I got a refund and everything. She’s tried to reach out a couple times, even used the old standby excuses but they haven’t worked. Her mom has seen pics of other girls I’ve been dating on my social media and I know word got back to her.
Yeah it’s amazing what time will do. I’m not saying she wants me back BUT she is the one reaching out, I haven’t been. I’ve truly gone my own way.So you've been less "stupid" overall as a result of not being allowed to continue that situation? God bless...
Yea. I was commenting on that one stupid thing many of us do or a oneitis or something is weakness and keeps us stupid across the board.Yeah it’s amazing what time will do. I’m not saying she wants me back BUT she is the one reaching out, I haven’t been. I’ve truly gone my own way.