"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Going from no Dancing Skills to Dance God?

nicksaiz65

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What would y’all say are the best resources to go from someone with no rhythm to a Dance God? This is one of my biggest insecurities so I know if I eliminate it my confidence will soar. I’m already doing cardio 5 days a week to help boost my endurance and be able to move around better. Also watching videos on basic rhythm on YouTube. I’d like to get to the point where I can kill it Dancing in the club(rap music) and eventually learn to EDM Shuffle
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bible_Belt

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Not that I am a dancer, but learning to count music couldn't hurt, if you don't know the basics, like time signatures, notes, etc.
 

Billtx49

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Take some singles welcomed modern dance classes. As with anything physical, it takes practice for perfection. On the plus side, it’s also a good way to meet girls.
 
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