Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Going from Friends to More Than Friends...

foomee

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Sooo I've been friends with this girl for a while and I'm starting to get attracted to her. At the beginning of last night she said to me that I'm one of her closest guy friends (which saddened me!). But by the end of the night I'm getting lap dances and basically her all over me. I didn't make a move or anything cos the thought of her saying I'm one of her closest guy friends messed me up...
I dunno if it's too late or not, but how can I turn this around? I'm thinking much more kino and possibly some sorta sexual contact/talking. I'm not trying to go too in depth with this though... but any advice will do.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dannyrt34

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This question is nearly impossible to answer. Because it's nearly impossible to do at your point. You can try the whole sexual contact or sex talk.

To be honest, I doubt it would work. Just be prepared to lose her as a friend if you do try to come on stronger.
 

backbreaker

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I was wondering when we would see another LJBF post.. you guys were starting to worry me.


Words can't describe how many Lets Just Be Friends post there are on this forum. literarly probalby a thousand.. at least 100 by me.

Before you make another post, use the search button. it's all there.
 

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I just love how girls can chuck interest and well, I can't touch her, she's just a friend. I like her and all, but she's just a friend.

Noobs!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thekcguyme

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same boat

I'm in the same boat dude. I'm friends with my Ex-Girlfriend and I still have deep feeling for her. She can't even go one day without talking to me. If i'm not online then she calls my phone till i pick up. She is dating a guy right now and she always tells me I'm much more of a boyfriend than he is and that she is torn between the two of us, but yet we arent together and I have a feeling we probably wont. women are just nutz and teases.
 

Alphamale1821

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Well i have been ljbf but i was some how able to get out i guess the change in my personality was strong enough to change things around. I was once a AFC with a girl i had a crush on she always though i was cute but i was "zoned" then when i made the change to become alpha i noticed all that ljbf **** went out the window once i started getting her attracted to me and pulling out some kino.

In the end i had her comming after me. So i would advise going for kino and being a little more sexually aggressive but at the same time not doin anything that will mess up the freindship. When you in the "friend zone" it can be hella difficult to get out and most of the time is best to just move on but if you feel the sexual connection from her then go on.
 
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