"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Going from Friends to More Than Friends...

foomee

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Sooo I've been friends with this girl for a while and I'm starting to get attracted to her. At the beginning of last night she said to me that I'm one of her closest guy friends (which saddened me!). But by the end of the night I'm getting lap dances and basically her all over me. I didn't make a move or anything cos the thought of her saying I'm one of her closest guy friends messed me up...
I dunno if it's too late or not, but how can I turn this around? I'm thinking much more kino and possibly some sorta sexual contact/talking. I'm not trying to go too in depth with this though... but any advice will do.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dannyrt34

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This question is nearly impossible to answer. Because it's nearly impossible to do at your point. You can try the whole sexual contact or sex talk.

To be honest, I doubt it would work. Just be prepared to lose her as a friend if you do try to come on stronger.
 

backbreaker

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I was wondering when we would see another LJBF post.. you guys were starting to worry me.


Words can't describe how many Lets Just Be Friends post there are on this forum. literarly probalby a thousand.. at least 100 by me.

Before you make another post, use the search button. it's all there.
 

Docs

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I just love how girls can chuck interest and well, I can't touch her, she's just a friend. I like her and all, but she's just a friend.

Noobs!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thekcguyme

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same boat

I'm in the same boat dude. I'm friends with my Ex-Girlfriend and I still have deep feeling for her. She can't even go one day without talking to me. If i'm not online then she calls my phone till i pick up. She is dating a guy right now and she always tells me I'm much more of a boyfriend than he is and that she is torn between the two of us, but yet we arent together and I have a feeling we probably wont. women are just nutz and teases.
 

Alphamale1821

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Well i have been ljbf but i was some how able to get out i guess the change in my personality was strong enough to change things around. I was once a AFC with a girl i had a crush on she always though i was cute but i was "zoned" then when i made the change to become alpha i noticed all that ljbf **** went out the window once i started getting her attracted to me and pulling out some kino.

In the end i had her comming after me. So i would advise going for kino and being a little more sexually aggressive but at the same time not doin anything that will mess up the freindship. When you in the "friend zone" it can be hella difficult to get out and most of the time is best to just move on but if you feel the sexual connection from her then go on.
 
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