"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Going drinking with a girl on Monday!

Moneytalks

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BOO YAH!

We're both underage so it'll be vodka and whisky in the park and swings :rockon:

Anyway, should I just get her drunk (and myself, obviously) and go in for the kill as it were.

Any "moves" I should pull?

REBOUNDING FTW :moon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lil hooligan

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Dude "just go with it" be yourself, kino & kiss, you'll be fine the alcohol will just help things go more smoothly
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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lol, your plan is to get this girl drunk and try to take advantage of her?
 

Moneytalks

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
lol, your plan is to get this girl drunk and try to take advantage of her?
It's only taking advantage if I'm sober. Which I guarantee I won't be.
 

CyranoDeBergerac

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Moneytalks said:
It's only taking advantage if I'm sober. Which I guarantee I won't be.
You're taking advantage because you're premeditating date rape.

All I'm going to say is this, if you think you need to get her lit for her to ingest your pet iguana, you're rediculously insecure. If your girl is underage she should be easy game anyway. Happening to be drunk while you're executing your plan doesn't make you any less guilty/creepy/insecure/AFC.

Any predatory punk can get a girl blitzed and bang her. There's no game, no self-confidence, and nothing worth-while in that. You're going to do what you're going to do, but realize this; there isn't any fine line between being a Don Juan and being a loathesome, self hating @$$-h0le. There is a great wall of China with armed sentries posted every twenty feet. Choose which side of the wall you want to be on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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