"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Going drinking with a girl on Monday!

Moneytalks

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BOO YAH!

We're both underage so it'll be vodka and whisky in the park and swings :rockon:

Anyway, should I just get her drunk (and myself, obviously) and go in for the kill as it were.

Any "moves" I should pull?

REBOUNDING FTW :moon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lil hooligan

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Dude "just go with it" be yourself, kino & kiss, you'll be fine the alcohol will just help things go more smoothly
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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lol, your plan is to get this girl drunk and try to take advantage of her?
 

Moneytalks

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
lol, your plan is to get this girl drunk and try to take advantage of her?
It's only taking advantage if I'm sober. Which I guarantee I won't be.
 

CyranoDeBergerac

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Moneytalks said:
It's only taking advantage if I'm sober. Which I guarantee I won't be.
You're taking advantage because you're premeditating date rape.

All I'm going to say is this, if you think you need to get her lit for her to ingest your pet iguana, you're rediculously insecure. If your girl is underage she should be easy game anyway. Happening to be drunk while you're executing your plan doesn't make you any less guilty/creepy/insecure/AFC.

Any predatory punk can get a girl blitzed and bang her. There's no game, no self-confidence, and nothing worth-while in that. You're going to do what you're going to do, but realize this; there isn't any fine line between being a Don Juan and being a loathesome, self hating @$$-h0le. There is a great wall of China with armed sentries posted every twenty feet. Choose which side of the wall you want to be on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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