"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Going drinking with a girl on Monday!

Moneytalks

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BOO YAH!

We're both underage so it'll be vodka and whisky in the park and swings :rockon:

Anyway, should I just get her drunk (and myself, obviously) and go in for the kill as it were.

Any "moves" I should pull?

REBOUNDING FTW :moon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lil hooligan

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Dude "just go with it" be yourself, kino & kiss, you'll be fine the alcohol will just help things go more smoothly
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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lol, your plan is to get this girl drunk and try to take advantage of her?
 

Moneytalks

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
lol, your plan is to get this girl drunk and try to take advantage of her?
It's only taking advantage if I'm sober. Which I guarantee I won't be.
 

CyranoDeBergerac

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Moneytalks said:
It's only taking advantage if I'm sober. Which I guarantee I won't be.
You're taking advantage because you're premeditating date rape.

All I'm going to say is this, if you think you need to get her lit for her to ingest your pet iguana, you're rediculously insecure. If your girl is underage she should be easy game anyway. Happening to be drunk while you're executing your plan doesn't make you any less guilty/creepy/insecure/AFC.

Any predatory punk can get a girl blitzed and bang her. There's no game, no self-confidence, and nothing worth-while in that. You're going to do what you're going to do, but realize this; there isn't any fine line between being a Don Juan and being a loathesome, self hating @$$-h0le. There is a great wall of China with armed sentries posted every twenty feet. Choose which side of the wall you want to be on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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