SharinganUser
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 1, 2006
- Messages
- 1,776
- Reaction score
- 50
Casually said:
Dude, you need to stop taking everything on here so seriously. Not trying to be rude or anything, just saying.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Going down on a woman who "looks" clean, but you barely even know.
- Thread starter Poonani Maker
- Start date
Dude, you need to stop taking everything on here so seriously. Not trying to be rude or anything, just saying.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
think about it this way, if you don't do it..some other guy will. i always make them clean themselves before i go down. i wouldn't do it at first either because my first girl wouldn't let me. after i did it the first time, she would BEG for me to do it again.
Ollie
Don Juan
So do all you guys that wait go and get STD tested with a girl as part of your getting to know her phase? Cause whether you know her or not really doesn't play much of a role in whether she's clean or not. Women show no symptoms for Chlamydia and HPV, and a lot of people have Herpes and probably other sh!t without knowing it. What's waiting do? If she has something and knows she's more likely than not gonna say something about it. Waiting seems pointless to me.
spread_love
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 29, 2006
- Messages
- 131
- Reaction score
- 0
Thank Christ there isn't a thread about clean looking girls you have just met and wanting to eat their a-hole out. 
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.