"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Going crazy for a girl I met only for couple days!

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dreamxhenry_notAFC

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Yeah hey guys back again,anyways couple days ago I got a number,me and this girl met at the computer lab,I was first afraid to approach her,but then I said"F*CK IT" so I went for it.Anyways me and her met for 2 days and now Im going crazy for her,I keep calling her leaving her messages!I know its been an AFC but this is THE FIRST GIRL EVER!To give me their number or to talk to ever expect for my mom.I need help I keep thinking about her,she hasn't called back in the last couple days.I really really cant stop thinking about her,I left like today atleast 10 messages,I dont know why maybe its love.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Awesome,its always good to hear someone who didnt even think about it and approached a chick. Ok now that thats out of the way,let me cut in....
Never leave more then one message in a day,trust me if they want they will call you back...DO NOT EVER GET ATTACHED TO A CHICK YOUR JUST MET! Come on buddy! Go hang out with friends,lift weights,clean your room,wash or do maintainence to your car, or do a hobby of yours. THERE ARE MILLIONS OF OTHER THINGS THAT YOU COULD SPEND YOUR TIME ON!
 
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blinkwatt said:
Awesome,its always good to hear someone who didnt even think about it and approached a chick. Ok now that thats out of the way,let me cut in....
Never leave more then one message in a day,trust me if they want they will call you back...DO NOT EVER GET ATTACHED TO A CHICK YOUR JUST MET! Come on buddy! Go hang out with friends,lift weights,clean your room,wash or do maintainence to your car, or do a hobby of yours. THERE ARE MILLIONS OF OTHER THINGS THAT YOU COULD SPEND YOUR TIME ON!
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Well you have a good suggestion but I dont have ANY friends,all I do is pretty much stay home use the computer.So meeting this girl is like heaven,dude she is sooooooooooo freaken hot,she looks like britney spears but HOTTER!!Your right I left too many messages,but maybe she doesn't like me?Im not sure but I been calling her ALOT!!No answers!
 
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AngelusPUA said:
If you're not a troll I feel sorry for you
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Well go click on the word where it says "SEARCH"then type in a memeber named :dreamx aka me read my previous posts and threads then after that do the samething again,but this time type in dreamxhenry aka me,after your done reading my previous posts&threads THEN COME BACK HERE and post!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That's not cool, man, it's sad.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not to burst your bubble.

Right now, it doesn't look good. Never call more than once in a day, unless she calls you. Otherwise it makes you look desparate.
 
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