"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Going crazy for a girl I met only for couple days!

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Yeah hey guys back again,anyways couple days ago I got a number,me and this girl met at the computer lab,I was first afraid to approach her,but then I said"F*CK IT" so I went for it.Anyways me and her met for 2 days and now Im going crazy for her,I keep calling her leaving her messages!I know its been an AFC but this is THE FIRST GIRL EVER!To give me their number or to talk to ever expect for my mom.I need help I keep thinking about her,she hasn't called back in the last couple days.I really really cant stop thinking about her,I left like today atleast 10 messages,I dont know why maybe its love.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Awesome,its always good to hear someone who didnt even think about it and approached a chick. Ok now that thats out of the way,let me cut in....
Never leave more then one message in a day,trust me if they want they will call you back...DO NOT EVER GET ATTACHED TO A CHICK YOUR JUST MET! Come on buddy! Go hang out with friends,lift weights,clean your room,wash or do maintainence to your car, or do a hobby of yours. THERE ARE MILLIONS OF OTHER THINGS THAT YOU COULD SPEND YOUR TIME ON!
 
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blinkwatt said:
Awesome,its always good to hear someone who didnt even think about it and approached a chick. Ok now that thats out of the way,let me cut in....
Never leave more then one message in a day,trust me if they want they will call you back...DO NOT EVER GET ATTACHED TO A CHICK YOUR JUST MET! Come on buddy! Go hang out with friends,lift weights,clean your room,wash or do maintainence to your car, or do a hobby of yours. THERE ARE MILLIONS OF OTHER THINGS THAT YOU COULD SPEND YOUR TIME ON!
Well you have a good suggestion but I dont have ANY friends,all I do is pretty much stay home use the computer.So meeting this girl is like heaven,dude she is sooooooooooo freaken hot,she looks like britney spears but HOTTER!!Your right I left too many messages,but maybe she doesn't like me?Im not sure but I been calling her ALOT!!No answers!
 
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AngelusPUA said:
If you're not a troll I feel sorry for you
Well go click on the word where it says "SEARCH"then type in a memeber named :dreamx aka me read my previous posts and threads then after that do the samething again,but this time type in dreamxhenry aka me,after your done reading my previous posts&threads THEN COME BACK HERE and post!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That's not cool, man, it's sad.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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crossboss

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Not to burst your bubble.

Right now, it doesn't look good. Never call more than once in a day, unless she calls you. Otherwise it makes you look desparate.
 
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