"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Going crazy for a girl I met only for couple days!

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Yeah hey guys back again,anyways couple days ago I got a number,me and this girl met at the computer lab,I was first afraid to approach her,but then I said"F*CK IT" so I went for it.Anyways me and her met for 2 days and now Im going crazy for her,I keep calling her leaving her messages!I know its been an AFC but this is THE FIRST GIRL EVER!To give me their number or to talk to ever expect for my mom.I need help I keep thinking about her,she hasn't called back in the last couple days.I really really cant stop thinking about her,I left like today atleast 10 messages,I dont know why maybe its love.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Awesome,its always good to hear someone who didnt even think about it and approached a chick. Ok now that thats out of the way,let me cut in....
Never leave more then one message in a day,trust me if they want they will call you back...DO NOT EVER GET ATTACHED TO A CHICK YOUR JUST MET! Come on buddy! Go hang out with friends,lift weights,clean your room,wash or do maintainence to your car, or do a hobby of yours. THERE ARE MILLIONS OF OTHER THINGS THAT YOU COULD SPEND YOUR TIME ON!
 
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blinkwatt said:
Awesome,its always good to hear someone who didnt even think about it and approached a chick. Ok now that thats out of the way,let me cut in....
Never leave more then one message in a day,trust me if they want they will call you back...DO NOT EVER GET ATTACHED TO A CHICK YOUR JUST MET! Come on buddy! Go hang out with friends,lift weights,clean your room,wash or do maintainence to your car, or do a hobby of yours. THERE ARE MILLIONS OF OTHER THINGS THAT YOU COULD SPEND YOUR TIME ON!
Well you have a good suggestion but I dont have ANY friends,all I do is pretty much stay home use the computer.So meeting this girl is like heaven,dude she is sooooooooooo freaken hot,she looks like britney spears but HOTTER!!Your right I left too many messages,but maybe she doesn't like me?Im not sure but I been calling her ALOT!!No answers!
 
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AngelusPUA said:
If you're not a troll I feel sorry for you
Well go click on the word where it says "SEARCH"then type in a memeber named :dreamx aka me read my previous posts and threads then after that do the samething again,but this time type in dreamxhenry aka me,after your done reading my previous posts&threads THEN COME BACK HERE and post!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That's not cool, man, it's sad.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Not to burst your bubble.

Right now, it doesn't look good. Never call more than once in a day, unless she calls you. Otherwise it makes you look desparate.
 
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